Lok, i am a girl . . . that is not into makeup, dresses, skirts, skorts, i dont even wear shorts in front of guys. What can i do to impress this guy i practcally love with/out changing myself?
2006-11-26 11:14:48 · 18 answers · asked by Star 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him.
Peace
2006-11-26 11:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by James S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, why the need to impress? Why don't you just try talking to him? Find out if you have some common interests, see if you are compatible, and go from there. You two will either hit it off or not. Remember, some guys like tomboys. I married one, and she is the greatest.
2006-11-26 19:22:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can still do fun things and look like a female. He might notice you if you looked like a girl sometimes. That doesn't mean you have to do that stuff all the time. Guys appreciate it when we take care of ourselves and take the time to look feminine for them. Otherwise he'll just see you as a buddy.
2006-11-26 19:20:42 · answer #3 · answered by honey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure, but i used to be a tomboy when i was interested/then dating my bf. he got used to how i was, and that changed me. and change isnt so bad. i still dont wear make up, or dresses, but long skirts are ok and nice clothes, like a comprimise, not frilly but qaulity and style. hope this helps lol :)
2006-11-26 19:20:16 · answer #4 · answered by mintymoon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys, like myself, really like tomboys. I don't know what you can do to change his mind, just know that there are great guys out here who love you for what you really are. If he doesn't, move on.
2006-11-26 19:17:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let these STUPID girly girls tell you to be more femine--be YOURSELF! If this guy doesn't like you for who you are, find someone else. I'm a tomboy like you-we are a dying breed. Too many dam n preps in this world.
2006-11-26 19:22:32 · answer #6 · answered by bassmaim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried flirting with him. You don't have to model to win a guy.Some guys may even be turned on by the tom-boy image.
You may even try wrestling him to a pin out if your really a tom-boy
2006-11-26 19:20:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am really the same way...and i've found that some guys are just not attracted to less girly girls. don't let this discourage you though...just ask him to hang out and get to know him better (if you don't already) and then see how things pan out. some guys are really impressed with sporty girls.
2006-11-26 19:17:36 · answer #8 · answered by water_admiral 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done that. now helping my bff w/ that. designer jeans, flattering tops and maybe just some pink tinted gloss/lipstick. nothin too dramatic or it will seem way too obvious what your doing!it worked great for me and my friend. guys dont leave us alone no more!
2006-11-26 19:22:18 · answer #9 · answered by nap_rox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not be girlish but you can express yourself. I think if you pick up positive vibes from him you can use words and the old song serves well. Its in your kiss thats where it is
2006-11-26 19:17:37 · answer #10 · answered by jgold49 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to change yourself just improve who you are, I don't know how you look but, change your hair style, maybe get a few femine tops,. If you and he are friends then he knows how you are an obviously he already likes you .
2006-11-26 19:22:10 · answer #11 · answered by kathy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋