this guy in my grade used to go out with this other conceited stuck up b**** she was in a clique with all these other conceited girls...all of them dont like me a nd call me a poser...but they shouldnt be talking.Well the girl used to always be with her friends and never spend time with her bf and he got tired of it and he dumped her and ever since then he always talks to me smiles at me, and i have him for Homeroom 2nd period 6 period and 8th period and whenever we have the same class he always sits by me and once he even tried to kiss me but i turned my face and he ended up kissing my ear.He laughed because i turned red as a tomato and i tried to aoid him ever since and on wednesday before we went on thanksgiving break he asked me if i was mad because he kissed my ear and i said "no" and he asked if i had a bf and i lied and said yes i like him but i cant get the fact that he used to go with the other girl off my head...what should i do??? pleas im very confused
2006-11-26 11:14:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont take this wrong but grow up... do you like this guy? if yes then stop with the game playing and ask the dude out. before he moves on... if you dont want to date him then move on and forget him.. who cares who he dated or didnt date in the past...
2006-11-26 11:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by momoftwobestkids 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change = yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. They don't respect women or children. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
2006-11-26 19:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide if you can get past the idea of his ex. It sounds like you're still pretty young, but I can tell you that at some point in the future you're going to end up dating someone who was in a relationship with an idiot. As a matter of fact I can bet that at some point you'll end up dating an idiot. So if you actually like this guy it wouldn't hurt to go on a date with him.
2006-11-26 19:27:20 · answer #3 · answered by Daniel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget the other girl. You'll go out with many guys when you can't stand the previous girls they were with. The try them and move on. He learned his lesson and isn't with her now. Don't punish him for making a good decision.
2006-11-26 19:28:17 · answer #4 · answered by honey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him...and get to know him....he made a mistake going out with that other girl but he got smart and moved on...so tell him you dont have a bf...and it sounds like he likes you so he'll probably ask you out...good luck! and i hope it works out for you!
2006-11-26 19:21:39 · answer #5 · answered by dance_till_u_cant_dance_no_more 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you like him you start talking to him and tell him you don't have a boyfriend. just take it slow you should not judge him for his past. remember those who judge shall be judged. if you really like him give him a chance. good luck and GOD BLESS YOU!!!!!!!
2006-11-26 19:18:47 · answer #6 · answered by toots2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well talk to him and go out with him, sounds like he likes you
2006-11-26 19:17:13 · answer #7 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋