k..there is this guy i really like and he is kind of my ex and i still have feelings for him and sometimes i go over to hang out with his sisters and he always kisses me, holds my hand and when i go to sleep he comes and lays wtih me but then the next time i see him he has 3 hickies on his neck and i got so confused and upset. his brother told me he liked me and i believed him cus he tells his brother everything. i just wanna know what his problem is and whats going on! i think he is just afraid of commitment or something. sometimes i think he just trys to get me jelous but i dont know. i just wonder all the time. what do u think?
2006-11-26 11:14:21 · 2 answers · asked by Aundrea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, Since you have a level of comfort with him. You should just be straight forward. Ask him how he feels. If he says he just wants to be friends, then treat him like a friend. Stop kissing and and hugging and laying with him. You would not do that with just a friend.
Then he will see that you are serious about what you are saying and maybe he'll miss you enough to come back.
2006-11-26 11:24:36 · answer #1 · answered by shylovekee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is the enemy of love. If someone is trying to evoke jealousy, that is counterproductive to a healthy relationship.
He may like you, but it sounds like he likes others too. Is that okay with you? Some women enjoy competition and jealousy, fighting and make-up sex.
Personally, I prefer an honest and loving relationship without jealousy, expectations or manipulative behavior.
2006-11-26 11:20:16 · answer #2 · answered by teach_empathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋