i've known this guy since i was 3 or 4and we've been bff's since. he gave me my 1st kiss. i've liked him since august. i really really like him, its almost luv i think.he keeps giving me signs like he likes me but then he gives me signs like he doesn't. he's been doin this for about 3 weeks now. i can't ask him if he likes me or not cuz he is grounded(he is really grounded for bad grades). wat r some signs that he likes me?wat r some signs that he doesn't like me?i want to know if he likes me so i can ask him out. i need help ASAP. thx for the help.
2006-11-26 11:08:50 · 11 answers · asked by rock chic3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we don't go to the sme school.
2006-11-26 11:14:46 · update #1
we don't go to the sme school.
2006-11-26 11:14:48 · update #2
Men usually like to fake it and pretend they don't like you. They want to feel like they don't NEED you but they do ( who else is gonna take care of them helloooooooo) Just flirt back and show signs to him that you like him. And if he gave you a first kiss then why worry about asking him out just do it .
2006-11-26 11:13:54 · answer #1 · answered by cmacarycarney6b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman has as much right to choose her spouse as a man has. However, the "choice" should be based on Islamic principles. It has been said that a man (and woman too) may want to marry a person for beauty, wealth, status but the best choice is based on piety. Marriage, in Islam, is a multi dimensional thing. It is emotional involvement as well as a very practical decision. So it is necessary to adopt a pragmatic approach towards marriage in addition to feelings. When one is "in love", one might not be very pragmatic. So, it is best to involve others (in your case, your parents) to have an unbiased, balanced and impartial opinion. Also, it is best to preserve your dignity before an unrelated person until you are really sure this will mature into something permanent i.e. marriage. So it is best to ask about the other person's opinion via a third party by your parents. You can talk about your feelings to your heart's content once you tie the knot inshallah. Spare them for later. Also, for common knowledge of everyone, women CAN propose to men in Islam. However, no emotional, romantic scenes are encouraged. But yes, they can send a proposal of marriage (which is also the case for men). Expression of feelings can wait till marriage.
2016-05-23 06:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you really should stop obsessing over this guy. Looking at the questions you have asked in the past, you have a definite problem. You keep asking the same question over and over. I would find someone else if I were you. You are well on the road to becoming a stalker, it sounds like.
2006-11-26 11:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by notanotary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys have known each other for so long and if you trust him just come out and flat out ask him dont do it in a way that he'll get scared away though now about them signs there is no real way of knowing if a guy likes you or not guys are confusing
2006-11-26 11:12:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
best idea is talk to him face to face just the 2 of you --- there is body language that you both give out and you can tell unconsciously what the other person thinks of you
if that does not work then ask him out when his grounding is over -- or go over and help him study --- really help -- you can get to know each other better as well
2006-11-26 11:12:33 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you need help. You are starting to sound a little obsessive. Calm down and take it slower. You are young. It'll happen. Maybe not him. Just relax, you know what you want to do, you don't need other people to tell you what you should do. You already know.
Do it.
Long Live Jambi
2006-11-26 11:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out...or have one of ur friends ask him or something...if he acts like it and you guys are really good friends then something might happen between you guys..you never know...but if he has a girlfriend then dont bother..but support him...and at best try to get with him when he breaks up with her...good luck and hope everything works out for you!
2006-11-26 11:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by dance_till_u_cant_dance_no_more 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can see if he is in love by the way he acts. For example: he gets clumsy everytime you pass, he is always staring at you, he gets jelous if a guys comes or talks to u...
2006-11-26 11:11:49 · answer #8 · answered by JMCG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt it suck when you cant tell if someone want to be just friends or something more... Ill tell you like people have told me just ask whats the worst that can happen...
2006-11-26 11:13:08 · answer #9 · answered by bigcrazyguinea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way to find out if he likes you... do exactly what you're wanting to do. ASK HIM OUT.
If he likes you, he'll say YES.
If he doesn't, he'll say NO.
Be willing to accept either answer.
Keep in mind... if he says no, there are other guys out there for you to become interested in.
2006-11-26 11:15:24 · answer #10 · answered by davidcolyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋