how to act around a girl u like?

Question

If a guy likes u, would want the guy to act like he doesnt like u and complete ignore u or would u like him to act like he likes u

Answer 1

ok Jr. Look, the number one thing girls find attractive in guys is confidence! Experience and success build confidence. Women don't want you to give them what you want. What you want is to give her what she wants. You want to make her happy so of course you think by actually bending to her every whim is what she wants in a guy. This is completely wrong. You think she wants her bf to be a weak willed, pu55y whipped, butler? H3ll no! She wants a man, an equal, maybe even someone whos dominant, but certainly not weak.

Next thing, be completely aloof about the big things, like politics or lifestyles. But on the little stuff where an actual decision is required, like which movie to see or where to eat, this is where YOU make the decision! The reason is because well... Girls are shoppers, excellent shoppers! They want to get the best possible deal, the most bang for their buck. So if you just roll over and become her slave, she will say " Hmm, if I subdued this guy so easily, I am definitely selling my self short!" and you will be history. However, if you actually give her resistance, actually make her feel that you can get another, better girl, then she will feel asthough you are a bargin, and a hell of a deal! You must be, right? You don't need her, and that will make her want you bad!

So here's what you should do. You don't have much experience, so you need to pretend you have confidence. The word of the day here is "counterintuitive". That literally means to the opposite of what you think you should do, and this is basiclally the answer to your question. But its not as simple as you have made seem above. Its not a black and white situation, there is a lot of gray. The reason this is so confusing is because of the art of flirting. Basicly subtle dirty dancing in public with words. You can figure that one out for yourself. Moving on.
Basicly you want to:
-Stay calm and relaxed
-Be deliberate (What ever you did or are doing is exactly what you wanted to happen, do not listen to critacism)
-Be a gentleman, not a wuss, a gentleman
-Be honest!
-Go slow, take your time in everything you do
-Be brave (not stupid or reckless)
-Don't make a big deal out of it
-Don't be afraid to be bold!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
-Be yourself (in any way that doesn't conflict with these guidelines)

Next time you see her, walk right up to her, calmly, slowly and deliberately, and just ask her if she'd like to go see a movie together sometime. It is a date, if she asks. Putting yourself out there like that is bold and decisive, and chicks think sexy. Good luck!

Answer 2

Well go get her dont let some other guy get her before you do!! I mean if you ask her out and she says NO dont let that get you down there is alot more girls to go get!! But if your wanting her do not ignore her or act like you dont like her you could ruin the chances then !!

Answer 3

Never ignore the girl and make her unsure of how u feel for her. Just playful tease and give cute smircks to her and laugh with her. Never act like you have other choices of girls waiting ugh

Answer 4

I'd want him to act like he likes me. Whats the point if you ignore the girl? You'll never know if you don't try :o)

Answer 5

DO NOT EVER IGNORE HER!!!!!
try to show her u care but don't do it too much. flirt, make her laugh.
if u want her to know, talk to her more than with any other girl, look in her eyes, give her smiles. sometimes give her compliments, not perverted onez, cause the girl will never come around u anymore

Answer 6

Do not ignore the girl - eew no, yea if the girl is confident she will just say 'what a jerk' but if she isnt so confident then maybe you should try ignoring her.... or if she thinks too highly of herself... or if she just ignores you, then ignore her... but girls like it... i like it when guys are sweet, and i like guys that i have funny jokes with. and i can act like an idiot with...

Answer 7

I would definitely want him to act like he likes me

Answer 8

Alot of friends i recognize try this, they start stressful the girl like poking her in the arm. Tripping her up (no longer actually nonetheless), maximum of them completely substitute there personalitys attempting to act all this. in certainty, if there throughout you regardless of if its like what i purely mentioned. for my area they fancy you

Answer 9

Dont completely ignore her, that will give her the wrong impression. But dont be all over her, you want to flirt but be aloof.

Answer 10

i would want him to act like he does like me and act like him self