my boyfriends family invited me out to dinner with them, so i said sure- little did i know that my boyfriend would make so many rules for me. he said that he didnt want me to order anything, because i would look fat and he said i should try to drop a few pounds before the dinner date w. his family.
now im super stressed what should i do?
2006-11-26 11:07:15 · 8 answers · asked by JAMIE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump his shallow a s s . Any man who tells you indirectly you are fat is a jerk and not worth another minute of your time.
2006-11-26 11:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey why is he telling you to loose some weight that is not right does he want his family to know you for the inside or you for the outside honey i would really sit down and ask him that cause he shouldn't be making no rules he should be excited that his family is going to meet the girlfriend that he really likes/loves man you need to talk to him. And don't loose weight for someone else if you think you need to loose weight seriously do it for yourself not for a man. Good luck hunny hope things are great a dinner.
2006-11-26 11:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by cowgirl85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Re-evaluate why you're with this man. Ask yourself - if this were the other way around, would you ever consider asking him to drop a few pounds or place restrictions on eating? If he loves you, he'll love you with or without that extra side of mayo.
2006-11-26 11:11:45 · answer #3 · answered by Po5lly (the 5 is silent) 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend sounds like an a$$hole. If he loved you he would be proud of you no matter what. You deserve better than that!!!! No wonder you are super stressed. I say you tell him off and don't return his calls. What a jerk!
2006-11-26 11:09:56 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetgirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That sounds abusive and demeaning. Drop him. He is attempting to control you.
2006-11-26 11:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by soberlunatic 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if ur bf is worried bout that kind of stuff hes a jerk nd u should dump his ***
2006-11-26 11:09:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is he serious? I think you should rethink the relationship.
2006-11-26 11:10:58 · answer #7 · answered by flesh_of_daisy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you are going to be yourself, or you are not going and tell his family why you aren't going
2006-11-26 11:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋