well i had been fooling around with her a while and then i noticed she was sort of getting attached to me so i told her we should stop, using the excuse "friends shouldn't be having sex" and then she asked why i couln't or didn't want to be her boyfriend. now i don't know what to tell her cause the reason i don't want to date her is because she is a little over weight. but i can't tell her that.i'm sure that would hurt her. or should i just tell her the truth?
2006-11-26 11:03:00 · 7 answers · asked by raul b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Number one your reason to not date her is very cruel... little overweight shouldnt be the problem and it seems like you have some feelinsg for her.. if you truely care about her and over look the looks.. i think you guys will do just fine dating her. I think your just afriad being with her etc... when girls give their virginty to a guy, of course theyd get attached because women are emotional and we believe that our virginty is very special and wed give it to someone wed truely care for. i think she really truely cares about you.. if you could have sex with her and over look the overweight..i think it may not bug you a little bit less then you think... Just be careful... and if i wa syou if you truely care for her, date her.. if you dont.. be honest and she will appreciate it in the long run... Goodluck
2006-11-26 11:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by Andrea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why would you go and fool around with her if you think she is fat?? I real reason you dont want her is because she is fat or is it for sure that shes getting to attached!! I would not tell her because she is fat I would just tell her that ya'll are better as friends and nothing more!! She is not your type apperently!! And if that dont keep her from wanting you then you might just have to tell her the truth!!
2006-11-26 19:08:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh so lets get this straight sex with some one over weight is fine but you dont want to date them you are so stupid some times the best things come in bigger packages and the heart is what really matters grow up she deserves better
2006-11-26 19:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by angela s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it totally depends on the situation. If she is in your circle of friends, then you better tell her something different like. . .you're not ready. But, if she is the type of person that can't directly affect your circle of friends, then tell her the truth.
2006-11-26 19:05:55 · answer #4 · answered by Dead Dog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a very lame excuse, weight should not make a difference. it didn't change the person she is inside. if that is how you are then she deserves better than you anyway./
2006-11-26 19:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by toots2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what if u tell her...and she tells u "your dick was very small too"..would it be any good with u...u dont have to do that...just tell her we cant get together any more...or i like someone else...she'll get hurt by all means...
OR
you can just date her and make her lose weight...not that hard...and it'll be better for u and her..that if u like her...
2006-11-26 19:16:37 · answer #6 · answered by A... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y dont you tell her to go to the gym with you watch her lose weight and reshape her body then get in her buns beat it up and just F()()k her good.
2006-11-26 19:06:47 · answer #7 · answered by so delicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋