ok so this ninth grader asked me out ( i am in seventh grade) and i said yes, only cause i just coulent say no to his face
well i havent even givin him a chance
but i dont want to go out with him
but we have a little bit of a friendship going on, and i dont want to get mugged so i want to be nice
this is what i have so far, is thier anything elce you think i could add?
2006-11-26 11:01:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
steven, dont take this the wrong way
its not you
its me
really
ok im not ready for a relationship right now
im just not
and their is only one person who can change that
and im sorry to say that person isnt you
its nothing you did, said etc
its me
im not over my past
and im not going to be for a long time
in other words
i just want to be friends
im not saying this to be mean
adn i have turned down everyother guy who has asked me out
i know your thinking
****, what did i do
you did nothing
and i hate satying this
but its not fair to me or you
im reallly sorry
and i was wrong for flirting with you
if i still do do that
it just me being an ***
i do that a lot
just cause
but im not ready for the impact of a relationship
on top of not being over my past,
im so grounded its not even funny
i know you think that im just making up some excuse not to go out with you
and the fact that i never gave you a chance
i know that im not over someone
2006-11-26 11:02:00 · update #1
a chance
i know that i'll never get over my past by not doing anyithg or meeting new people or going out with new people
but getting over my past is something i need to do on my own
i kinda like being single
even if i do like you
im just not ready
and noone can make me ready
im just not
this is somehitn i need to face on my own
and ITS NOT YOU
ITS ME
i swear!!
please dont take this the wrong way
please
and im reallly sorry
cause i know how it feels to be let down, and to not even be givin a chance
it hurts like hell
but this letdow
2006-11-26 11:02:49 · update #2
With all that you're allowing him ammunition to argue your feelings .. which are obviously there .. do you really want to risk losing that dialogue?
Just tell him you've changed your mind because you're not ready for a relationship other than friendship and leave it at that.
2006-11-26 11:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by thellord_thighgod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u already know what to do. just tell him ur not ready for a dating relationship but u would still like to be friends. if that doesnt work u can always pull the whole "my parents wont let me date yet" or somethin.
2006-11-26 19:06:51 · answer #2 · answered by tannabanana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could just say its not workin between us.
i'm not attracted to u like i used to be.
ur not who i thought u were.
i'm not ready for a relationship just yet.
or u could just put it out there and say i don't want to go out any more, or u could have a really good friend tell him dat its not workin for u two right now. ( i had to do dat for one of my friends)
i hope u get the right words. good luck
2006-11-26 19:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by Tab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about if you simply tell him that your parents won't allow you to date or have a boyfriend until you're 16. You are too young to be dating anyway :-)
2006-11-26 19:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by mJc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sounds great but i promise you it will go even better if you tell him to his face instead of through a note
2006-11-26 19:04:50 · answer #5 · answered by Pretty "N" Simple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of its not you, its me....dont do that. he will automatically know its all FAKE. what i use to say when i was younger was my parents wouldnt let me date. if he doesnt buy that then say that you got back with your ex recently and you want to see where it leads again with your ex and you dont want to drag him along. hope this helps. good luck
2006-11-26 19:29:45 · answer #6 · answered by EverCharlie2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋