I was raped by my b/f's friend. My friend says not to trust ne guy. We are 16.
Is it wrong to trust my b/f when I fall asleep in his arms and know that he won't want more?? Is this too much trust/too much to expect from him??
My friend says that no 16yr old boy can sleep with only his arms around his g/f and not cop a feel or ne thing. Is she right??
We have been together for 2 years and yes he knows about the whole rape thing.
I trust him and used to b4 I was raped but now my friend says I look easy in his eyes.
She says all they want is sex and will do what ever it takes to get it. I never told her that we already had sex, b4 I was raped.
2006-11-26 11:00:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, why don't u trust ur BF?
i mean his friend raped u, not him. and ur friend is a jealous @$$, like how does she know whats going on in ur bf's head.
besides ur bf never raped u did he?
2006-11-26 11:05:52 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, did you report the rape to the police? If you didn't do this, I recommend that you do that ASAP. It is possible he could rape someone else and many people don't report rape and there is no justice. Also, it is very important for you to get counseling because it is possible this could affect you in many ways you may not even realize. Rape is something that many people do not ever get over but the counseling is likely to help you heal and find ways to cope with it. Until you get counseling you may continue to have difficulty trusting others. I hope that your bf is no longer friends with the person who raped you because that would mean he is not supporting you.
2006-11-26 11:17:00 · answer #2 · answered by kkolnows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Raped? Really? You sure you didn't rub up on him and call it rape afterwards? A lot of girls do that just so they don't have to admit doing it. You wouldn't be talking about it like this if you were really raped. No...all guys don't do that. Hardly any of them do. Don't care what you see on TV. It ain't true. Did you call the cops? Did you turn him in? No? Well then, it wasn't rape, was it?
2006-11-26 11:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by blunter26 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i dont know your boyfriend so i cant say for 100% but if youve been together for 2 years than you can trust him, however your friend that says all guys want is sex and will do whatever it takes to get it, i wouldnt trust her worth a damn.
guys do want sex but most arent stupid or big enough assholes to do that. if he really cares about you, he wouldnt think about doing anything without you permission. i know when my ex used to fall asleep in my arms i used to just play with her hair or if i was really bored and couldnt fall asleep myself, id text people, i never would touch her inappropriately or anything.
hope it helps.
2006-11-26 11:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by sarge_247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is an idiot,it is obvious the guy is fine,you have been with him for two years and you said you had sex with him before you were raped.
2006-11-26 11:05:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your friend has issues and you should be wary of accepting them totally
it is possible for a lady to sleep in a 16 yo arms -- not all 16 yo i must admit -- but a lot i think --- if he cares for and respects you he will treat you with respect
and no you would not look "easy" in his eyes --- and yes guys want SEX but we can and do exercise restraint with someone we love
2006-11-26 11:06:36 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋