I just can't do it like other girls!!?

Question

My biggest problem in life is that i just can't losen up.. Its just not in me .. No matter how hard i try .. i just can't do it.. Im too Picky.. Im fun around my friends ... But i won't give a guy a break.. At this rate I might just endup being lonely 4 the rest of my life.. And that is too scary ...Does anyone else have the same problem as me??If yes how do u guys cope??

Answer 1

I totally understand what your saying. I do the same thing around girls. I think people like us just need to loosen up and have fun. Easier said then done

Answer 2

I know exactly how you feel. I'm like that too, I can't loosen up around anyone but my friends. I tend to scare all people away... but I did meet a guy, who because he was so outgoing, i guess kinda helped me be more outgoing. He was friends with me at first, and then he asked me out, but anyway we've been dating for 3 months now and I'm still pretty bi*tchy around every one else but him and my friends. You'll find the right guy and sometime you just have to not care what everyone else thinks and just be yourself, even around people you dont know.

Answer 3

Youre not ready so just dont make yourself do anything. You will be ready someday just not yet and that's ok. Just have fun with your friends. Think how free you will be to do what you want and not be tied down with some guy yet.

Answer 4

Your boyfriend is supposed to be like one of your friends. When you date, I can understand being nervous, but tight? I don't think you should act any differant towards your friends than your boyfriend. He is one of the people you choose to spend your time with, like any other friend!!

Answer 5

not me !
love them , then leave them ....