Last year I went to Disney with my aunt, 2 cousins, and my grandparents. This year it'll be my aunt, my 2 cousins, my grandpa, & my cousin and his wife. My cousin Katie and her sister-in-law, Coral are going and any time they get together they leave me out of everything. They include everyone else except me. My mom suggested that I just tell them that I'll be busy with college and can't go but I think I should tell them that I feel left out. I don't know what to do. Suggestions please!
2006-11-26 10:54:31 · 8 answers · asked by Lucy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just say "I'll be busy with college and can't go". When you grow up and get married, you'll have kids and a husband and another family so you won't feel left out of anything.
2006-11-26 10:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of a self-fulfilling prophecy? Sometimes we have an expectation and can make it happen simply by believing it will. Sounds like you have some expectations based on previous experiences and need to talk to your family about it. If they listen and are supportive and offer to help you, then I would go. But also realize that you need to take responsibility for your own time and destiny- if you want to be included, make it known!
2006-11-26 10:57:01 · answer #2 · answered by soberlunatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them the truth to clear the air.
2006-11-26 10:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by tofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell the truth you will feel better about it in the end
2006-11-26 10:56:35 · answer #4 · answered by conundrum_dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you don't want to go on a trip with them and you have other plans.
2006-11-26 10:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well tell them the truth and if things don't change don't go again
2006-11-26 10:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say you are busy and don't have time.
2006-11-26 10:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by Cuddly Lez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them u doo feel left out.....& see what happens, & if they still do that, tell them thankx but dont ever ask me again.......
2006-11-26 11:00:34 · answer #8 · answered by ~i love my boys~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋