this is they boy i talked about in my other question (if u havent see it please fing it and try to give and answer) ok after we had sex and we broke up i feel this need to wan to do do it again and i can be doing anything and this feeling comes over me and its so strong and i feel like i need in in me and the sex was good and all but i mean damn i trying to get over him but i am craving for him sex what can i do to chage this. and just to show u how strong we broke up and and about 2 monthe later the feeling came over me and and i went so low i amost begged him to come over i said sorry for every thing i might have said worng i was just saying anything to make him come over and he did now i feel dumb? what should i do?
2006-11-26 10:50:45 · 12 answers · asked by ocn2bfw 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to stand up, first of all--he's not the only guy in the world.
Try getting a vibrator. Find OTHER ways of satisfying yourself--sexually and nonsexually. You are in control on your own body.
2006-11-26 10:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your mind, cause your body can get you in serious trouble. Let it go. Sex isn't everything but it's something important. I know how you're feeling. I'm dating and I haven't had sex with him yet, we've been dating for days now. I would love to have sex with him cause I like him and I've got feelings for him but at the same time I want to make sure this is the real deal. I'll wait cause experience has taught me to wait. It doesn't matter how much I want it I'll say know cause that will be the best for me right now. When the time is right then I'll say yes. Keep your mind busy so that you won't think about it so much. With time you'll realize that it's a lot better to wait cause good things might happen. Just think of the many things that can happen just by having sex because you just feel that you want to
2006-11-26 10:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a young, healthy person with normal drives. If you don't want to be a sex addict, you should start channeling that drive into something else until you find the right guy.
Try two tracks: one would be work out physically, whatever you like running, weights, yoga, whatever, until you are tired. The other thing is use your creativity: draw. paint, sew, redecorate your place. Go for it. You will probably keep thinking about sex, that's normal, but try to switch your focus and energy to other goals. You don't want to be used and let yourself be because of your drive, use it for your own reasons. Make your life bigger and better than a relationship with a boy that isn't right in the long run.
2006-11-26 10:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by Susan M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have control over your own body. You do not need anyone else to have an orgasm. It is better to know your own body and find ways to have relief rather than to depend on someone else.
Masturbation is a great way to love yourself and to feel good and you'll never have a pregnancy scare. You can buy toys or be creative if you are really into penetration. You deserve great sex in a healthy environment that respects you and your body.
2006-11-26 11:01:42 · answer #4 · answered by teach_empathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I recommend you improve your spelling and/or learn your key locations, no offense. On your question, it's normal to have a desire for sexual activity. That's why it's so important to refrain from it until you marry the one you truly love. To be deterred from having sex, I suggest you read some material pertaining to sexually-transmitted diseases, unwed teenage mothers, and if able to, visit a home of such unfortunate mothers. It's a very true image of what could happen to you if you continue to have sex. Furthermore, it's a clear indication that this "boy" used you. He got what he wanted, now he's avoiding you. That just says that he used you and is no longer interested in you, not to mention he doesn't care about you or your feelings. Lose this loser, move on, and refrain from sex no matter what it takes! I hope this advice saves your life and your future.
2006-11-26 11:02:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
can't blame for feeling that way but to get back with him just for your selfish reason is not wise at all. You need to be with good friends to tell you what to do when you feel the need to do it. talk to someone you can trust. pray about it. getting on with any guys won't bring lasting love specially if you really just want to have fun for a moment.
2006-11-26 10:57:20 · answer #6 · answered by bel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dont understand people who have these 'urges' they cant control. Like how animalistic - humans are supposed to be more intelligent meaning they are smart enough to not be forced by desire into unwise situations.
2006-11-26 10:53:12 · answer #7 · answered by radiancia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get some control over yourself!Just say no!
2006-11-26 10:55:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join millions in the same shoes. Just say no. :)
2006-11-26 10:53:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ah, let him be. You dont need a man you need a vibrator.
2006-11-26 10:53:06 · answer #10 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋