should i go uot with this guy if i know he is a cheater and probably will cheat on me
2006-11-26 10:49:49 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why torture yourself?
2006-11-26 10:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, do you really know he cheated? Did he have a reason to cheat? If you feel he would definitely cheat on you, then most likely it isn't a very good idea, but if you're just assuming he would, maybe you're being insecure and should try to be more confident in him if you both really like each other. Communicate with him and let him know you don't want a relationship if he is going to end up cheating anyway. If he assures you he won't, maybe he truly likes you and deserves a chance. I don't believe in once a cheater always a cheater, people can change.
2006-11-26 11:02:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you asked the question reveals that you will any way. And you will anyway because you are so desperate for his limited attention that you will sacrifice your self respect and sense of self-worth on the altar of sex. Guys like him thank heaven every day that there girls like you. Guys with higher morals and higher standards would never give you a second glance. I suggest you latch on to the cheater and hold on for dear life--he may be the best you will ever get.
2006-11-26 10:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Curious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with going out on a date with a cheater. The problem is if you expect him to not cheat on you when you already know he is a cheater.
If you don't want a serious relationship, then go out with him.
2006-11-26 10:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's like asking if you wish to kill a small defenseless puppy: hell no!
why would you open yourself to such suffering and deceit? my advice is that if you know he's going to cheat, he'll cheat, nothing destroys a relationship more than when someone doubts of the others trust. don't go through that, find some other dude who'll be faithful to you till the end, good luck!
2006-11-26 10:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by NEGRONE1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hardly think one date is a relationship.....if he is on a date with you how is he going to cheat....now if you are thinking of something long term with him, then no I wouldn't even consider going out with him....Do you really know if he is a cheater? Or is it hear say?
2006-11-26 10:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would you want to? You're putting yourself at risk of heartbreak, as well as STDs in an unbelievable number, for what? Is he the only single guy around? Don't you deserve better than that? You really do, you know!
2006-11-26 10:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by Baby'sMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me !!!...What part in i know that he's a cheater didnt u understand...its ur call anyways...but make sure that u wont get harmed in the end...
My opinion is no...but u do what the little voices in ur head tells u to...
2006-11-26 10:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by A... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends. If you don't actually know this for a fact, I'd give him a benefit of a doubt and give him a first chance. A second chance, maybe, depending on what you can take, but definitely no third chance.
2006-11-26 10:52:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know this and your still attracted to him and no he won't be faithful just have fun with him and don't have any high expectations of him just enjoy your time for what its worth and don't get hooked on him.
If your thinking you can change him you can't.
2006-11-26 11:19:59 · answer #10 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that would honestly be a dumb thing to do. u need a guy that wants only u and will treat u how a girl should be treated. dont go that low.
2006-11-26 10:55:05 · answer #11 · answered by Natalie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋