My parents are always fighting over every little thing. Of course they tell me theres no way they'll ever get divorced, and there not fighting that often. What I hate is how they always bring me into it, either by fighting about me, or by asking me to side with one or the other. Its bad enough they fight, but how can I get them to leave me out of it?
2006-11-26 10:44:53 · 4 answers · asked by Emily 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'd get up and leave the room. With that said. My son says my hubby and I fight alot, and to us we are not fighting. We are discussing different things and giving our points of view to each other. Usually we don't raise our voices and maybe it would be considered bickering by some. But really it is harmless. So I wouldn't worry about the divorce issue. If they say they wouldn't get divorced than believe them. No sense worrying about it until it really happens.
On the other end of it. It is not fair for either of them to ask you to side with them. But maybe they are trying to get you in on a discussion. Make it a family thing?
Good luck.
2006-11-26 10:54:24 · answer #1 · answered by goldensparkler61 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calmly and politely ask them to leave you out of their personal fights. Tell them that you are going to take sides and do not have the maturity yet to make judgments about their fights.
2006-11-26 18:48:35 · answer #2 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time they are fighting and ask you to choose a side tell them that you refuse to choose a side and that you want them to stop fighting.
2006-11-26 19:01:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try telling them how you feel about their arguments and that you would like to be left out of them? That might work.
2006-11-26 18:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by Dead Dog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋