what would your say/so if your bf reallys needs to have sex,but i will not untill i get married,hes said i'd prefer to **** some other girl,than you so i can make our wedding night special,what can i say to him?is it a good idea what hes thinking?
no silly,stupid answers please.thanxs
2006-11-26 10:15:28 · 27 answers · asked by raz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is he for real. ?
2006-11-26 10:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by beverley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should seek for help with her quick. communicate on your preacher or yet another relied on older married couple. She desires time then good, yet she desires to locate herself promptly. She has desires and also you should make like on your spouse. possibly try a diverse attitude. you received't be giving her the romance she desires. try sweet speaking her back. purchase her a dozen roses and a card. Come abode early from paintings and remind her how eye-catching she is....possibly she is feeling neglected and would not comprehend the thanks to inform you. Cater on your spouse and be an outstanding husband. And for goodness sakes.. make like to the female and don't have sex. Having sex has no which skill you're married....Make love. look at her eyes and tell her the way you experience about her and how a lot you want your spouse. dishonest isn't the answer. basically positioned a touch paintings into the fantastic marriage you've already got and be surprised at what comes from her interior the mattress room! satisfied loving making,
2016-10-16 10:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by coombe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this man is willing to marry you he must be in love with you and relationships are not always about sex he should have the patience to wait and there are other things you can be both practicing while you wait for your special night, affraid i would make him wait and NO other girls
2006-11-26 10:23:54 · answer #3 · answered by neil c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what he wants really.Let him rambel on for awhile pleading his case.Then ask him if he is going to die if he doesn't have intercourse.let him think.Ask him if you do have intercourse and something happens unexpectedly like a kid what then.ensure him that once your married the sex will be the best and you know it.No guilt, on sorrow, no regrete.Just sure pleasure.You don't sleep in a house before you buy it.
2006-11-26 11:54:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just point out that after 7 years of marriage he will be lucky to get sex once every 3 months, so get used to it.
2006-11-26 10:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by JimboBimbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is only trying to pressure you in to sex you are not ready for. if he even half cared about you, he would respect you and not make empty threats. if he is that selfish, you should really give serious thought to wether you wish to spend the rest of your life with someone who tries to "MANIPULATE" YOU. this is not a relationship builder, rather one where, if in your shoes, I would tell him to hit the road jack and don't you come back no more.
2006-11-26 11:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by maude_438 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey chick, don't be manipulated into thinking thats a good idea, Yea he sure showing his commitment to you by ******* other girls, wow what sacrifice, he must really love you.(thats a sarcastic comment) sounds like he 's only after what he wants, if he is willing to come out and say that who knows what stupid things he will try next
2006-11-26 11:01:34 · answer #7 · answered by heymikey420 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh, man what a creep. Sorry, honey, But if he's not man enough to wait for your wedding night, then he's not man enough.
As for ****ing someone else to make you happy on your wedding night......oh, come on. The best part about waiting for each other is learning to do stuff together.
Uh, uh, I wouldn't tolerate that for one minute.
2006-11-26 10:25:48 · answer #8 · answered by marie m 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's planning to be unfaithful to you, whatever the circumstances, then you are better off dumping him.
I'm not being crude, but if he's that desperate then get him some dirty DVDs and a box of kleenex and let him get on with it.
But the bottom line is, if he can't be bothered to wait for you, then he's not worth having.
2006-11-26 10:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by Hello Dave 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like a loser. Find somebody who will respect your wishes. Don't let him go and av some other girl n then let him back- that's just ludicrous. He's also trying to manipulate you ...in the early stages.
2006-11-26 11:17:13 · answer #10 · answered by Tk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the thing is if he is horny cant he just jack off instead of having sex and the thing is that's just a lame excuse for him to fo it with ya so i wouldn't do it lol but this is coming from a guy lol
2006-11-26 10:19:23 · answer #11 · answered by Sammy T 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋