Ok im 22 and yes i hate to admit it but ive been living with my father for about 8 months ...Anyways my father always expects me to do what he says and i better do it right well lately he's been acting real funny and gets real mad at me for no reason well when he does tell me to do something i do it but its either not good enough or just something not right well heres another thing i dont get whenever he is mad at somebody he expects me to be mad too and when im not he gets really mad and threathens to kick me out but then he doesnt ... i dont get it ,,,what should i do ?
2006-11-26 10:04:27 · 7 answers · asked by Heaven <3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Try to talk to your Dad about what you are feeling. Maybe he does not understand the effect that his actions are having on you.
2006-11-26 10:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is talk to your dad and let
him know what bothers you, if you still get neg-
ative responses from him see if you can't stay
with a friend or someone else in the family. U
didn't say why u moved in with ur dad. If it is be-
cause of financial problems , and because u are
young look for two jobs, this will help u twofold,
one it will get u more money quicker, and two
it will enable you to get your own place to stay
a lot quicker. I would rather live in an efficiency
that go through the problems that you are going
thru if your dad did not change.Having 2 jobs
also will keep you at home less with ur dad.
2006-11-26 22:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship you are describing is pretty toxic. You can try talking to him about it when he's calm - but, it doesn't sound like it would make much of a difference.
That being said; Work very quickly to get your own place. That is not now and will never be a good environment for you. If you don't have a job, find one. Get a roommate, ask friends, whatever it takes. Get out on your own.
2006-11-26 18:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by bionicbookworm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move out
if you are living there because of reasons beyond your control and just CANT move out - then you need to be an adult and sit down and talk with your dad - it's a fine line you have to walk, be respectful, he is your father after all....but then again, you are an adult....but then again, just because you're 22 doesn't mean you know everything.
personally, I'd find a way to get my own place...find a roommate - whatever...just get out.
good luck!
2006-11-26 18:29:40 · answer #4 · answered by Madikam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to have a long talk with your father
2006-11-26 18:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with your dad, he's probabaly just going through something stressful(work?) and this is how its coming out. if you absolutely cant reason with him then maybe you should move out and let him cool down and work through what's bothering him. good luck, though!
2006-11-26 18:42:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dad gets mad at me easily..i dont live with him though,he shouldnt tell you what to do you an adult now!...just talk
to him
2006-11-26 18:07:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋