i masterbate and i feel like its effecting my sexual life. when its just me, i *** like 3 times. but when its me and my b/f, i just cant seem to *** 4 him. and he thinks its his fault. and hes the 1 with a very good reputation of pleasing girls in the bedroom. but i know its my fault. what can i do about it? seriously
2006-11-26 09:50:40 · 8 answers · asked by missboricua14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you could stop masturbating and see if that helps you climax with him. If it doesn't, then maybe you two should work on your sex. I mean, tell him what's good and how to do it right.
Masturbating isn't evil. If you want to keep doing it, keep doing it. But you will probably climax faster if you haven't done it in a while, so give it a try.
2006-11-26 09:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
teach him how to better get you off by doing what you do to yourself... reputation has nothing to do with how someone is in bed by the way and looks are often deceiving... teach him...
2006-11-26 17:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him to do the things to you that you do to yourself. And then relax and enjoy it. Don't put pressure on yourself to reach climax.
2006-11-26 17:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop blaming yourself
sounds like he is not that good at all
as you must know your body well teach him the tricks that work for you
if he cant learn he is a poor lover - great lovers are great learners
2006-11-26 17:53:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try stimulating yourself WHILE having sex with your bf. That should help you get to nirvana.
You can also try masturbating a little less...
2006-11-26 18:04:50 · answer #5 · answered by Axeman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing can lower a guys confidence like being bad in bed
btw, id kill to have multiple orgasms
2006-11-26 17:54:54 · answer #6 · answered by Spiderpig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Touch yourself when your having sex with him, lots (hell most) women have to do that
2006-11-26 17:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
masterbate by your self first .then make him think you came
2006-11-26 17:53:33 · answer #8 · answered by stacy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋