what should i do ?

Question

I love my best friend and he loves me back but he claims he is going out with my old best friend who hates me and i hate her for various reasons . i love him and also at the same time i am in love with him . i don"t know what to do . i like him so much that i want to talk to him day and night . we joke all the time about having sex with each other but i want that to become a reality . how should i tell him how i really feel and how can i found out what he feels?

Answer 1

Talk to him. See if he feels the same as you. Do NOT do the deed if he is going to stay with the other girl. In fact don't do the deed unless the 2 of you are together, as a couple, and plan to be that way for a while...

Answer 2

You could share him.but that isn't good for your self esteem and soul. Meditate and release your hatred. It just hurts you. Bless and release the other girl. Most people pay for their indiscretions as their lives unfold. Tell him you're interested and prepare yourself for rejection.sometimes physical intimacy ruins a great relationship. It seems that having a friend with benefits isn't for everyone. I think if it progresses, you may lose the friend in him. Weigh this carefully. The best you can wish for is his happiness and if he is with someone else, there is a good reason why. Lust, jealousy, hatred isn't worth ruining the greatest friend you may ever have. Be careful for what you wish for because you just might get it. Good luck.

Answer 3

If he is with someone your relay need to just be friends until he tells you that he feels the same way . Hun dint have sex with him in till you make sure that you to will be together . the best way to tell him how you feel is write it in a letter . and ask him how he feels if he feels the same way he will tell you .

Answer 4

You need to try to talk to him alone and tell him how you feel and that you cant live without him.

~Good Luck!