well when i was 16and was young and stupid i had sex and got pregnat.i was mad but happy.esspecially when i was gonna have a baby boy added.my family said they'll help me raise the baby.but when i was 16an a half and i was 4months pregnat i lost my baby.and now that i'm 21 i am very lucky to have a 5month daughter and a fiance who cares about me and his child.so have you ever had this happen to you?and how are you doing now?and were you a teenage mother once?and ever had misscarriges while pregnat as a teen?
2006-11-26 09:29:55 · 13 answers · asked by ElEgAnTFiShIe 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
i had my first daughter at 15,i had a miscarriage with twins at 17,(very distressing).i had a little boy at 19,another daughter at 21,and my final son at 26(10mths ago)and yes all with the same father,i still think about the babies that i miscarried,but then i look at my children,and think if i hadnt had the miscarriage,then they wouldn't be here today,so for that i feel blessed.so many people slagged me off and told me to have an abortion,the way i see it ,i felt mature enough to have sex,then i had to face the consequences and grow up and look after my baby.she is now a lovely 11yr old,and to think that people wanted me to abort her,makes me feel sick.i know i'll get a few thumbs down for this answer,but why? their dad and i are still together,they are well mannered and polite,they are dressed nice,and i work in a residential home for the elderly,so dont rely on benefits.i have not spoken to my uncle for 11yrs,as when he found out i was pregnant,he called me a slag and said he would never speak to me again if i didnt have an abortion,i made my decision,my child came first,and its the best decision i've ever made.congratulations on becoming a parent,its the best feeling ever,isnt it?
2006-11-26 10:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by stokies 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your VERY lucky. I was pregnant also when I was 16. I was financially ok and everything was suppose to be fine. But me and the father of the child got into an argument and he hit my stomach hard. I was almost 5months pregnant and I lost my baby. She was a girl, I was planning on naming her Ashley, (after her mommy!) After everything was said and done, my doctor tolf me that I had a 35% chance of ever being able to carry a baby to full term. My ex had done some damage to my insides. So remember how lucky you are to have your baby. Everyday old her like you never want to let go. Thank god everyday for giving you that secong chance.
-A_Granito@yahoo.com
2006-11-26 09:55:18 · answer #2 · answered by Ash420Granito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i was 15 when i became pregnant and 4 days shy of turning 16. I've never miscarried, but I'm sry to hear about yours...You must of been devastated... I'm doing great now..I finally have my family, and ready to move on to see what life has to offer..i'm engaged to be married when i turn 18 which is next year..! My baby gurl is a year old and my fiance is 19, and i'm 17...Were happy as can be..!!
2006-11-26 17:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by *Proud Mommy Of 2* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when i was 14 i had my first abortion and oi didnt realy care a t the time, now i'm 19 happily married, and expecting my first child, i believe that for any women to loose a baby is a very dificult thing, and i also believe that at the age that i had my abortion i was very childish and didnt realize the magnitud of what i was doing, i also believe that you cant let the past haunt you, be happy with what you have now and enjoy it as much as you can because you never know what's gonna happen tomorrow, i realy hope you get to supress that in your memories, obviouly not forget it, but be strong about it, good luck and my vest wishes to that 5 month old of yours!!!!
2006-11-26 09:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by yennyfer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I got my ex girlfriend pregnant at 16 but thankfully she didnt have a miscarriage. My son is 4 months old now, but unfortunately my ex girlfriend wont let me see him at the minute, for certain reasons.
2006-11-27 09:30:08 · answer #5 · answered by KaZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure it has happened to somebody somehow somewhere BUUT i dont think that becoming more mature is only confined to age like for example this 18 year old gets pregnant, she'd realize sooner that she should be more responsible and act maturely and stuff like that. ooor when one's family falls apart, they're bound to think that they should be more independent and mature. so it isnt always about age its more about the situation they're in
2016-05-23 05:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am Man don't think I've ever had this happen to me ,but you should count your blessing, you are one of the lucky ones to have a norther child and be able to get on with your life. Best of luck to you.
2006-11-26 09:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by larry B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lying little girls aren't cool. I'm done being subtle... This girl is a 13 year old youngin' in junior high school.... When she joined Y!A in July she pretended to be 18. within a month she turned 19. At the end of August she somehow turned 18 again, and then magically jumped to 21, and now she's pretending to be 22. Although her 360 page currently says she is 18. She was pretending to be a virgin in late July, and then she thought she might be pregnant...again... in late August. It was "confirmed" that she was pregnant in early September, but then she was unsure about losing her virginity again by October. She at one point posted a question asking what a man's d*ck felt like inside of a woman, only minutes after asking about one of the sordid details of her make-believe pregnancy. She has also pretended that she was a retired cop, who had been issued a Beretta for protection on the beat, and that she shot a poltergeist in her home. Oh, and this was while she was pretending she was 18. After her next door neighbors had a squabble that inadvertently killed their baby son, she needed to attend the funeral. But the next day, her ever-so-gracious boyfriend's family decided they had no qualms with adopting the dead child and did so right away. She is a compulsive liar who has no children, no husband, no education beyond elementary school, likes attention, and either can't seem to get it from her parents, or is online lying when they don't know about it. She's most likely a virgin, and is definitely no older than 12 or 13 years old. here's nifty little links to a few of her random assortment of LIES:
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2006-11-27 11:31:46 · answer #8 · answered by Rick R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just asked this question (below) a few days ago...so, are you engaged or what....I think you are a LIAR. Just be going back and reading all your STUPID questions. Are you lonely, starved for attention or what? And, how old are you really?? 15?
Does he like me or love me?
well i like this guy at work named isaiah i'm not married but he talks to me,jokes with me,laughs with me,plays with me,and sometimes flirts with me,and asks me funny things.he dosen't act like this with other girls why me?does he love me or have a crush on me?
2006-11-26 09:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by Trixie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes,better left in the past.
2006-11-26 10:07:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋