every guy i like always tuens me down???? it really hurts and im about to just give up on everything! : (
2006-11-26 08:56:54 · 20 answers · asked by Blinded we Fall 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i asked this ONE guy out and he said no , i only like you as a friend , but why does he always satre and smile ??? I really like him and would like to go out with him.
2006-11-26 09:08:16 · update #1
if i post a pic of myself on here will you please telll me what i can change?
2006-11-26 09:13:28 · update #2
Alot of boys, just like toying with girls.
But me, im a gentleman.
2006-11-26 08:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't explain much about the circumstances of the 'turn downs'. Even so, you have to remember that lots of people are already in relationships or are not really looking for anything serious. And, never rule out an unlucky streak.
Step back & evaluate what you really want and how your going about getting it. Are you trying to hard? Is there anything about your attitude or appearance which the guys might not be attracted to? Do you have a bad rep? Do you smoke when most of them don't?
Take time just to hang out & have fun. Don't push to hard. Watch what other guys and girls do. Switch up the wardrobe. Switch tactics. Try checking things out in a different setting than your used to (parks, hiking, go to a sports game with some friends, try out for a sport, join a club).
Stay positive! Most people can sense when you're on edge.
2006-11-26 17:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by bionicbookworm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems that the best ones are either taken or not interested until you have someone else, then they come out of the woodwork seems like. don't give up on yourself. it's always a blow to selfesteem when you get turned down for anything let alone trying to get a date. take some time to collect yourself, maybe try another approach or find more about the guy before putting yourself out there like that. i do have to say i admire your character by getting out there most girls just sit by wondering why no one talks to them or asks them out. you have the advantage by letting the guys know your there... it's just a dry spell
2006-11-26 17:08:18 · answer #3 · answered by lms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probably coming on too strong and scare them away. A lot of guys like a little competition, so play a little hard to get once in a while and have them guessing what really is on your mind.
2006-11-26 16:59:22 · answer #4 · answered by Zaiza 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is a book called the rules, its in paperback and it gives great ideas on how to find a loved one. Its absolutely great, if you follow these rules, which is basically being hard to get, you will find a loving and caring partner.
2006-11-26 17:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by Just ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you have a reputation for asking out so many guys, be a bit more discreet, act like you don't care and they will suddenly become keen.....
2006-11-26 17:02:05 · answer #6 · answered by North London Lady! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u shouldn't be looking to be in a relationship. take some time and love urself. u have nothing to lose but a lot of self discipline, control, and esteem to gain. work on u.
2006-11-26 17:01:40 · answer #7 · answered by kimmi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to wait until the guy asked you sooner or later it will happen for you so hang in there and be strong HUGS
2006-11-26 16:58:22 · answer #8 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe the guy you like is playing hard to get...even though i am one myself men are confusing.
2006-11-26 17:10:42 · answer #9 · answered by HHH 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP flaunting ur self. Be a lady and the right man will come at the right time. Geeezzz!!!!
2006-11-26 17:01:52 · answer #10 · answered by papabeartex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋