Just when I think I have found a faithful, honest, decent woman she turns out to be the biggest cheater of all. It turns out she cheated with her boss at work to get a better job and this ended up causing a divorce in her marriage. And she was only seeing me to make her boss jealous because her boss is also married. Where do I find a faithful woman?
2006-11-26 08:52:07 · 21 answers · asked by questioningly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try searching for the Holy Grail or the Philosophers Stone - you would be far more likely to find success!!!
2006-11-26 08:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why can't you find a faithful woman...maybe you're not spending enough time with the women you're dating long enough to see what they are really about before allowing the relationship to go to a deeper level. See my recent posted question re: Does anyone court a woman anymore. That might in part answer why you got to the point in the relationship that you did when you discovered this. Personally, men on my dating path were shallow and empty charmers, I stopped getting mad at the men and instead just tuned in my emotional antennas more. By doing this I saw the character of a man very early in the dating phase and ended the relationship with him before I got myself in the potential scenario of him being a cheater, loser, player, etc. Re-think how and where you are meeting a woman and how soon you take the relationship to a deeper level so the chances of the issue you encountered will be less likely to occur.
2006-11-26 09:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by onelight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like a woman, do not have sex until later in the relationship- It does not matter where you meet a woman, in a church or a strip club, either they are a cheater, or are not. Like any human they will justify their actions to make themselves feel better about what they have done. I married a man that had sex with another woman infront of me after two months of marriage (I was against it- he did it anyway) I stayed for another three years. You are not the only one searching for a faithful person, time with a mix of trial and error is about the only solution to your problem.
2006-11-26 08:59:11 · answer #3 · answered by allaboutme_333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my first question is:
Where are you looking for these women??
This could have a lot to do with why you are dating these type of women. You could just be looking in the wrong places.
If you found her at the bar, club, etc, ... not saying this is a bad idea, just saying that those are usually women who like to go out.. have fun.. "no strings attached" type of thing...
Instead, try meeting people at the Grocery Store, the Gym, the Library, etc.
2006-11-26 08:55:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well where are you meeting these women. Not all women cheat and those that do really aren't happy. Once you cheat though most feeling dies and you really don't care about the people that fall in love with you. If you want to talk IM me at smilefake_withlust. Maybe I can help ya out.
2006-11-26 08:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by sexylilgirl_idealmgf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking in all the wrong places. If your looking for a true honest woman the only place really to find one is church, they are really faithful, so i've heard. I'm faithful you haven't found me yet.
2006-11-26 08:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by nikki_77327 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is about trial and error. Seems like you've errored a lot. Well, it only can get better right? Keep on trying, and i'm sure you'll find a faithful woman!
2006-11-26 08:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur not being honest either think about it? take things slow don't be in such a rush! don't eva look in a bar check out places like coffee shops ,fairs,regular stores! come on u could do better but 1 thing u should neva do is step out your door and think ur gonna find someone descent and honest! there r people out there that r descent and honest but it takes awile to find those people! u will find someone but don't just wait around 4 someone go out and do things that r active and maybe you'll find someone on your adventure! explore! hope this helps!
2006-11-26 09:09:52 · answer #8 · answered by vocalstar2b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit looking and wait for the right one to come along.
You know the saying, "A watched pot never boils..."
If you keep lookin' 4 her, you'll never find her. True love comes when it's the LEAST expected. You never know...she may be right under your nose.
Be patient and let time tell the story...u never go grocery shopping hungry cuz you'll buy everything that looks good; you never search for "love" when you're lonely cuz you're somewhat desperate. She'll come to you, just wait....
2006-11-26 08:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you are going after the wrong women. You must be looking in the wrong places. We are out here looking for Honest Loving MEN.
2006-11-26 08:56:10 · answer #10 · answered by beachladyjenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋