I am pregnant with my second child and after this one I definitely don't want to have anymore in the future, at the same time I would not like to be sterilised and then have a change of heart.
This baby was concieved due to a mistake with the pill, obviously I will love him/her, but I would much rather use a form of contraceptive in future that didnt rely so much on me getting it right!
What options do I have for longer term contraception?
2006-11-26 08:40:48 · 16 answers · asked by cigaro19 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Oh and I would prefer to have serious answers only, not 'Don't have sex', 'use a vibrator' or 'become a lesbian' or anything silly like that.
2006-11-26 08:43:11 · update #1
the coil is very good for longterm contraception. the coil is positioned in the cervix by a doctor and only needs to be replaced every 5 years. much easier than taking a pill every day. the best thing about the coil is that it can be taken out by your doctor at any time just in case you get that change of heart. I would advise that you go see your doctor or local family planning clinic
2006-11-26 20:01:30 · answer #1 · answered by newmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I've not long had my post natal check up after my second child, and of course the doctor asked the question about my choice of contraception, of course so soon after the birth my obvious answer was not to have sex!! All joking aside, she recommended the coil, which I always thought sounded horrific, however as I seem to be in a similar situation to yourself, definitely no plans for anymore but not wanting to be sterilised and husband does not want a vasectomy (typical) this seems to be the best solution. Apparently it is very reliable, makes your periods very light, and as it stays in for several years it really is no hassle. The down side is that there is a small risk of ectopic pregnancy. I haven't gone for it yet, I'm still breastfeeding and I think you have to have it inserted during your period, and I haven't had one yet so I can't give you any personal experience.
2006-11-26 09:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the Depo Povera shot might be an option for you. My friend had it and she loved it. She was on it for a while and you don't do anything....except go to your doctor every 4 mos. or so for a renewal shot. It was reversible; when she remarried, she got off them and started the pill again in case she wanted to have a kid with her new husband. I know they have side effects just like all birth control, you can ask your doctor if the shot will work for you. Congrats on the new baby!
2006-11-26 08:47:29 · answer #3 · answered by cudancegirl1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm sure you realize you are more fertile at times of the month than you are at others. Just to use my wife and I as examples we know there is at least one week right after her monthly we can have unprotected sex and the other 3 weeks I either use a condom or I have gotten really good at pulling rather than pushing. I know it sucks but I'm 36 and she is 42 our kids are almost grown and we just dont want anymore either though we are both still capable. You just have to be open with this with your partner and make him understand you dont want anymore and make him wrap it if you cant trust him to pull out on time.
2006-11-26 08:54:55 · answer #4 · answered by martin1170_2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would definately try the injection...it lasts for 12 weeks and if u have it done durin your monthly u are immediately protected...some girls dont even have periods for the whole time the injection is workin...which cant b a bad thing. i would be aware of the side effects though...it is possible to gain or lose weight & your periods can b irregular...if they happen at all. the implant is also a good idea but if u were thinking of having a baby it can take up to 3yrs after the implant is removed for normal fertility to return...good luck xx
2006-11-26 08:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by carly-jayne r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hands down winner is the mirena iud. one visit to the doctor, approx 6-8 wk after the baby is born. takes less than 5 minutes to put it in, somewhat crampy but over quickly and bearable. dont think about it again for 5 yrs, you should check the string monthly but many women cant even find them. it will result in less painful, and much much lighter periods. most women dont have any periods at all. it is reversible and you can get pregnant right away once it is out. highly effective, even better than sterilization as far as pregnancy prevention. I dont like the copper iud as it causes heavy painful periods. other options, implanon is coming soon, an implant in your arm - not sure how long it lasts for. depoprovera injection - my last choice for birth control- too many bothersome side effects. search mirena and learn more
2006-11-26 08:49:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why is this in R&S? except your thoroughly unrelated element out of the Catholic Church, your question has no longer something to do with faith or spirituality. by ways, there is not any such element as an "abortion recommend". there is not any human being available clamoring for women to have abortions. The time period is "professional-determination" - which signifies that, inspite of the actuality that in case you would no longer in my opinion have an abortion, you recommend that that's the lady's determination. in case you do not pick authorities thinking birth control, what makes you imagine your opinion must have any concerning the right of a woman to abort a baby?
2016-11-29 19:41:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you said that you dont want to be sterilized but you can always have your tubes tied then if later down the road you change your mind you can have it reversed. My sister had it done and she just had a Very healthy little girl shortly after having them untied. But you can always try the shot if you dont what any kind of surgical procedure.
2006-11-26 10:10:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the coil can b in for 5yrs and the implant 3 both r very effective the coil the most but due to some complications not every one can get the coil!im on the implant the la yr and its brill
2006-11-26 08:51:21 · answer #9 · answered by catznolan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Greetings
Your options are many...Intrauterine device, foam, condoms...the info is in pamphlets in family planning centres and clinics...perhaps even in the doctor's office. My experience has been that everyone is doing precisely what they want to do, all things considered. Set your strong intent, whatever that is. Be very clear within yourself as to what you want and then do the research...online, library, other women who have had similar issues...try www.wildwolfwomen.com
2006-11-26 08:53:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋