I have been dating a really great guy for about two months now. Things have been going really well, but the problem is that he's moving 6 hours away at the beginning of the new year. I am not into long distance relationships at all and lately I don't really see the point in us staying together until he leaves. Should I just end it now?
2006-11-26 08:40:42 · 10 answers · asked by Natalia B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Long distance relationships have a hard time surviving. You have to follow your heart and your head and do what feels right for you.
2006-11-26 08:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by rhythmoftheblues 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a very good question. If you dont feel you can handle a long distance relationship then i would now because it get harder and harder to end something when time goes by. But some long distance relationships do work but it is rare. If its ment to be he will come back in to your life. if not life will go on.
2006-11-26 16:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by valerie s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't see the point in you two staying together, then end it. IF you want him to remember you as a romantic milestone in his life that he looks back at and smiles- stay till the bitter end, then cut it off... but either way, cut it off. Long distance relationships fail.
2006-11-26 16:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well heres the deal...if u REALLY love him and feel like you can't let him go then stay with him and possibly move with him! but the moving in with him part depends on how old u and him are...and how it works out with u. but if u like him...but think u can go on to another guy...then let him go...and like someone eles said don;t use the long distance excuse...its not the best u can give!
2006-11-26 16:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by animal_lover_3000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be with him, then don't. But don't use only a 6 hour distance as an excuse.
2006-11-26 16:43:33 · answer #5 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might as well. you won't see each other then too. long distance relationships mostly don't work cause your not around to make sure that other person isn't cheating or doing something wrong. know what I mean?
2006-11-26 16:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by Linda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself these questions.
1] Is he coming back?
2] Is he worth waiting for?
3] Can you think about him being with someone else?
4] Why is it that you're with him now?
5] Will you miss him?
You'll figure it out! =]
2006-11-26 16:49:40 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ LysoL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. There is not point in dragging it on. He obviously is taking another direction in life. I think you should be open to what might actually be long term...ie another dating realtionship with solid ground.
2006-11-26 16:43:20 · answer #8 · answered by Reese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, why waste time when you haven't known him that long and it's obviously not going anywhere. Good luck
2006-11-26 16:43:44 · answer #9 · answered by ms.fruitbat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably best to, before one of you gets too attached...then you can stay friends w/o the drama...
2006-11-26 16:43:13 · answer #10 · answered by rufnready 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋