My b/f and I have been together two years. He has always been clingy and insecure. He would always put me first and want to see me as soon as I got off work or he got off work, I mean right away. Well I broke up with him 2 weeks ago b/c he made me mad, not b/c I wanted to. We were only broke up for 2 days. Anyways we are back together, but now he is acting totally different. He doesn't call me as much, he will take his time when he gets off work instead of wanting to see me right away. I would just like to know why you think he would be acting this way. I've asked him and he says he insn't being different. I also asked if there was someone else or if he didn't want to be with me anymore and he says no. Please help, what should I do?
2006-11-26 08:38:39 · 25 answers · asked by silvienicole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because, little drama queen, you pushed the boy too far with your break-up antics. He has now seen a side of you that is not attractive and it's made him wary.
2006-11-26 08:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 14:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with him, because he mad you mad. poor baby. You should of talk to him about why he made you mad and work it out but, you took the easy way out and broke up with him, you are a child, To ask him if there is someone else is a slap in the face because he is back with you. it sounds to me that you are the one who is insecure and clingy. Give it time so you both can heel and both of you need to grow up and learn to talk out your troubles instead of braking up over the small stuff. It's easy to blame him and say he is acting different than to blame yourself.
2006-11-26 08:57:18 · answer #3 · answered by larlonewolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most relationships are amazing the first time, but ultimatly different the second time.
What's happened is, you hurt him. He was expressive with how he felt before and you hurt him by breaking up with him, so right now he is withholding himself from you, probably not intentionally. But he doesn't want to be hurt again. Take things slow, be sure to let him know you won't hurt him like you did before again and he should come around. Remember, this isn't his fault. So don't get mad, he probably doesn't even mean to be this way.
2006-11-26 08:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by evil_nykki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been through the same thing hun. The reason he is acting different is because you broke it off. And that caused some hurt in his life, and now he could feel like he cant trust you that much with your relationship for right now atleast. just give it some time and he'll be back to normal. =]
2006-11-26 08:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by Nena 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lets examine this situation.
You broke up with him because he made you mad and it was only for two days. This is absolutley absurd. If I was your boyfriend and you broke up with me and tried to get back with me two days later I would have never taken you back for the simple fact that the relationship didn't mean anything for you and becasue you had fight with him you broke up with me. relationships are about talking to each other and not leaving the other in the dust because they made you mad.
Realize that you probably went about that situation all wrong.
talk to your boyfriend and ask him how he felt when you broek up with him and how he takesd it now.
2006-11-26 08:59:01 · answer #6 · answered by panda112 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thinks you broke up with him the first time because he was bieng too clingy so now he's trying to give you a little bit more space so you dont dump him again. You need to talk to him. And dont accuse him of cheating because that would meant that you dont trust him.
2006-11-26 08:45:57 · answer #7 · answered by Via 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is probablly acting this way because he doesn't know 4 sure if this time its going to be the same or if u still hav passion 4 him! he might think y r we getting bac 2gether so soon? did we really work out all of our problems that quikly? does she still care? guys get broken very easily and he doesn't want to get to attatched because he knows now that u can break his heart because u broke up with him so he doesn't want to take things to seriously because things can change! but if u do care for him take things slow and show that u do want to b with him and try 2 take some time to talk about your fight u had and think of better ways to solve it!!
2006-11-26 08:44:48 · answer #8 · answered by vocalstar2b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE HES JUST TRYING TO GIVE YOU SOME SPACE. MAYBE YOU HAVE SUGGESTED TO HIM THAT HE IS SUFFOCATING YOU. HE MAY FEEL THAT BY HIS CONSTANT CLINGINESS HES JEOPORDIZING WHAT HE HAS WITH YOU AND HES ONLY TRYING TO RESPECT YOUR WISHES. TO ME IT SOUNDS LIKE HE MAY BE A BIT NEEDY AND OBSESSED AT TIMES. ON THE OTHER HAND THOUGH, YOU MAY HAVE CHANGED SOMETING INSIDE OF HIM FOREVER WITH THIS LITTLE BREAK-UP OF YOURS AND SLOWLY BUT SURELY YOU HAVE BEEN PUSHING HIM OUT OF YOUR LIFE WITHOUT EVEN KNOWING IT OR WANTING TO DO SO. CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR. SOMETIMES WHAT YOU WISH FOR IS ULTIMATELY THE LAST THING YOU WOULD EVER WANT TO HAPPEN. THEN ITS TOO LATE TO GET IT BACK AND YOU'LL END UP HEARTBROKEN BECAUSE YOU WILL THEN BE THE ONE NEEDY AND CLINGY AS HE ONCE WAS.
2006-11-26 08:51:36 · answer #9 · answered by Candice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, your boyfriend is playing a power game, whether it is conscious or not.
You made a decision and broke up with him and then took the decision back. He was probably hurt, his worst fear came true, whatever. Now he is either trying to keep his distance from you because he is afraid of being hurt again, or he wants you to pursue him to prove that you love him.
2006-11-26 08:42:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋