I love this girl so badly in my class. In class she always sits beside her friend, (not near me, but we cant pick out seats). She is in all my classes, and sometimes we talk (not much). Two years ago in school my friend suddenly went, Ill give you his number over at her (she must of been starring at me), but Im not sure. Is there anything I can do to sorta give her a hint (or even asking her out) about my love for her. Something that wont erupt the class in OOHHS!!. You know something like needed help with work. Something that will attract her attention, or get her talking to me! HELP PLEASE!!
2006-11-26 08:35:21 · 10 answers · asked by matthew 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her you need to talk to him after school,in school,where ever, just tell her to meet alone, then tell her that you want to get to know her, and ask for her number, after a while, if you get a hint that she migth like you then ask her out, to the movies or something like that. don't seem to desperate,or too cocky, and have something to talk about when you ask her out.
hope ever thing gose well
2006-11-26 08:37:16 · answer #1 · answered by jes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you'll have to talk to her and find some common interest that you can use to really strike up a conversation. It's usually better than just going up to a girl and telling her that you like her and want to go out. But to me it sounds more like you have a fetish, or are "in love" with her without actually loving her (that's just my opinion though). Anyway, from there you can use that common interest to find other things to talk about. The thing is to get her talking about herself and you commenting and asking more questions to get to know her more. If your successful she will start volunteering answers without you asking, and also begin to ask you questions. That's a good sign, because she is showing that she is curious to who you are...however, do not assume that she likes you.
People...girls and guys, too often assume that a girl, or whoever they're talking to, likes them just because they start talking with them and show some interest. Don't fool yourself, let the course go naturally and don't be afraid to talk and ask appropriate questions. Finally use whatever natural giftings you have in your conversations. So if your funny and witty, use that to make her laugh. If your knowledgeable and wise, use that to show her how understanding and smart you are. If you're and idiot, be the best idiot you know how to be without making her want to run away.
Another thing you might try is asking her for help in one of ur classes, or if it looks like she needs help, help her out...but make it a smooth transaction from where and what ur doing to helping her. Unnatural, random, and uncomfortable actions, conversations, topics, and any interaction from you to her should be avoided...unless she likes that. Have fun. Live and learn.
2006-11-26 08:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by Ikaika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to confess your love straight away, this can be very daunting and intimidating for any girl when a guy they hardly know (and hardly knows them) confess that they are in love with them. My advise would be to go slow, take your time and try to settle for just a friendship untill you know how she feels about you.
2006-11-26 08:41:23 · answer #3 · answered by evil_nykki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well get to kno her. try to sit near her at lunch. get her number. hang out with her crowd of friends. compliment on what she is wearing. or what she looks like that day. girls love it when you compliment them or sweet talk them. dont change who you are to get her to like you. but after you get to kno her and become one of her really good friends..you could prolly ask her out. or tell her your feelings
2006-11-26 08:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by Alena C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay
at lunch ask her to sit with you talk to each other get to know her
ask her if she wants to do homework together
2006-11-26 08:45:43 · answer #5 · answered by Desiree L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEND her a note. SAYING id ike to talk some time.LEAVE your phone number.
2006-11-26 08:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 long to read sorry!
2006-11-26 08:38:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in private tell her how you feel.
2006-11-26 08:40:14 · answer #8 · answered by question man 911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to her and talk to her!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-26 08:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um......That's .......in..ter...es...ting........................
2006-11-26 08:38:03 · answer #10 · answered by Allyson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋