ok so i posted a question about this about a couple of weeks ago the one about being in love with a collage student and how it wont work out because there is a four three year difference well now my caoch is telling me things about him that are shocking and not stuff that i can live its stuff that is scary its like finding out your whole life is a lie what should i do should i conitue to like this guya or listen to my coach because he says that he knows this guy... and i know what hes saying is true b/c he has quoted this guy exactly and i want to believe him but how could this guy lie to me we had so much history that is seems wrong. should i back off knowing what hes capable of? or shood i keep the relationshp that we have...
2006-11-26 08:14:09 · 11 answers · asked by Catch a falling star 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't overanalyze this situation. Follow your heart and your instincts. Personally, I would slowly back off. It sounds like its causing too much stress for your life. Remember, there are 300 million people in the USA. He is 1; there is more than one match.
2006-11-26 08:19:18 · answer #1 · answered by CJ Major 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Half of what you hear is bs and the other half is usually lies. Some people have a hard time seeing anyone happy and need big red bows for their **** stirring spoons. Especially if this other man has ulterior motives. Trust your gut and go with that. Keep your guard up, but dont base your opinion on what someone else has to say about someone.
2006-11-26 08:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust your self, and don't talk your self out of what comes to naturally. If your mind says run or there is a doubt, run, if not stay and play the game till the bitter end the choice is yours and yours alone.
2006-11-26 08:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by matt v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Identify that this coach does not have a conflict of interest,
IE( that he has nothing to gain by your upset)
Its really a simple choice of if you want to be with
this guy or not. The fact that your having second thoughts
now is not good. THINK
2006-11-26 08:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by Graysquirel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When in doubt tell the guy what is being said about him without telling his name.
watch his reaction .
You will know the truth ...
or say nothing at all and find out for your self as time goes on.
2006-11-26 08:19:06 · answer #5 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is NOT clear
I can't even tell what you MIGHT be talking about.
If ya feel like your life is a lie, just get real with yourself first , then others too.
Maybe the coach wants to get with you and is just dissing that guy.
2006-11-26 08:18:37 · answer #6 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are scared of this guy and you need to back off if thats the problem i would listen to your coach if i was you
2006-11-26 08:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by angie f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
j if u have second thoughts of u and him then u don't need to be with him. trust urself no matter what. but sometimes things u here could be true. instncts is a gift we have.
2006-11-26 08:26:20 · answer #8 · answered by kimmi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can u find a way to talk to a family member of his?
2006-11-26 08:16:44 · answer #9 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you play with fire,you are bound to get burned!Be careful!
2006-11-26 08:18:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋