My boyfriend of 7 months has given me a time period to have a job or he's going to break up with me. It's a 2week time. I am looking really hard for a job at the moment. I had quit the job I was at b-cuz driving to a 3 hour a week place wasnt really putting the gas back in my car at the time....I'm running out of time as I only have a few days left. I'd never leave someone if they didn't have a job. Please I need some opinions. Thank you-
2006-11-26 08:08:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As for my boyfriend answering this....I wasnt looking for your opinion nor a smartass remark. You know what I told you and that's all I need to say. I dont mess with your questions so please to mess with mine. I want peoples honestest opinions on this not a story book. *Love you bye*
2006-11-26 11:30:37 · update #1
Tell him that u are trying to find a job as best you can, and if he can't stand by you when you are down (don't have a job) than u don't want him in your life when things are good (you have a job)!
Just see how he reacts to this, hopefully he will come to his senses and realize he is being selfish and controlling. IF NOT then, PEACE.
2006-11-26 08:38:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has every right to break up with you, for whatever reason he chooses. It's his choice. It's not he needs to justify it.
Of course, you have the same option. Do you really want a guy who tries to control you by throwing ultimatums at you like that?
2006-11-26 16:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should definitely take into account that you are making an effort and actively trying to find work. I would re-think being with someone who wont support you when you are going thru a hard time. i wish you the best!!
2006-11-26 16:19:34 · answer #3 · answered by jazzie0202 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just the fact that youre trying really hard should mean something to him.
and now that he sees that youve been serious about this, i thik its time that he helps you with it, and doesnt let you do all this hard work by yourself :]
2006-11-26 16:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by _peaches_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know for a fact you didnt tell him you quit your job and is it ok for you to be taken care of by him when he buys you food and cigs with the money he saved up to get a tooth pulled this is her bf answering this q
2006-11-26 16:45:41 · answer #5 · answered by gus1023 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
damn if e tells u that he doesn't love u but depends on Ur economic situation if u really need to find one u have to consider him n Ur situation i guess good luck
2006-11-26 16:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by Jolie Vu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋