im seeing this guy on a casual basis.ive known him for a while.we live in different towns and we only meet by chance if we are out in the same town on the same nite.he always invites me back to his place.we havent slept together.
he says he likes me etc but in the morning, he always wants me to leave early.he says that i have to go.i ask him why but he wont tell me the reason.he says it in a joking way but he is serious when he says it.
he is single as far as im aware and there is no sign of a girlfriend at his place.its not as if he would have had time to hide away her things cause we only meet by chance.its not planned.
am i just being silly?
2006-11-26 07:59:16 · 18 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's got another girl on the go (does not have to be live in type girlfriend!), thats the only reason for him to be so shady about things...give him a miss next time you see him...;
2006-11-26 08:01:54 · answer #1 · answered by huggz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Silly, no I would say stupid. Why do you go home with a man you know nothing about. And then he kicks you out in the morning. Well that is really pleasant. And you keep going back for more. He probably does have a girlfriend or even a boyfriend who will be home from work soon. God bless*****
2006-11-26 16:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like something could be up. You're saying that you crash at his place, but nothing happens between you sexually? I commend your self-control. Why not just ask him why he ushers you out so fast in the morning. It could be that he just doesnt want you hanging around all day, which is understandable. I'd kick a guy out if he didn't seem to be getting ready to leave.
2006-11-26 16:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that's the time he likes to settle down on the settee and pick the fluff from between his toes whilst watching The Jeremy Kyle Show.
2006-11-26 16:12:39 · answer #4 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he has someone else, he doesn't want anyone on a serious basis at the moment. Likes his own space and doesn't feel comfortable with you in it. Can't you invite him back to yours and see if he behaves differently?
2006-11-26 16:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a letter stating all your ??s and feelings. I have been there and it did not go anywhere and when I got sick of being kicked out I stopped talking so much to him. He told his friends that we broke up and I did not even know we were dating!!
2006-11-26 16:03:25 · answer #6 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably afraid that he has a girlfriend. Or he's picking between two girlfriends and you just happen to be one of them. Good luck!
2006-11-26 16:02:28 · answer #7 · answered by Allyson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there` s someone else in his life,, if he cant be bopthered during the day dont be bothered at night , next time u "bump " into him say hi and bye
2006-11-26 16:24:44 · answer #8 · answered by PAULA C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find you someone who isn't in a relationship. The one you're seeing now is.
2006-11-26 16:01:15 · answer #9 · answered by thatwench 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's seeing someone else. Deal with it and stop posting the same question over and over!
2006-11-27 04:52:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋