someone tells you they like you but they are super geeky and all gurls have said no to him???? i dont want to hurt him but i want to stay single for now....
wat do i do?
2006-11-26 07:57:14 · 10 answers · asked by soccerballa17 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're not sure...sounds like you like him back or at least think you might be able to like him. Go out with him and you never know, things might work out great. Don't worry about what others think or have done. This is not their life it's yours so you do what you want.
2006-11-26 08:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by rayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you don't have to turn him down by telling him he's "super geeky", there's no sense in insulting the poor guy. A simple, "I'm flattered, but right now, I'm not interested in a committment." Be honest, you want to stay single, but don't hurt his feelings.
2006-11-26 16:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by restless_nymph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to turn him down because other girls hace said no to him, or because you don't like him either? Or because you want to be alone? First you realise what you want and feel and why. Then you are honest because no matter how much it will hurt him if you tell him you don't want him, it will hurt even more if he realises you're lying (for example you say you want to be alone for this period and after 2 weeks get yourself a super cool new boyfriend). No need to feel bad if someone likes you and you don't like him, there will most probably be other girls more suited for him
2006-11-26 16:03:23 · answer #3 · answered by speedy eleni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two words, bill gates... remember ladies, the geeks of today are the rich men of tomorow... dont get mewrong, im not saying go for money, but just because hes geeky now, when hes hits 18, he'll probably be fine.... be nice to everyone, you never know who the hidden swan will be
2006-11-26 16:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by s p 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it wil hurt but be honest. say you like him but you just want to stay single for now. and that you would love it if you were friends.
2006-11-26 16:00:19 · answer #5 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sypathetic to him and just say that you wana stay young and single for a while. he will respect that more than just a "NO"
trust me i have had one of them guys ask me out too (eww!) !
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2006-11-26 16:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by XxXToMuchToThinkAboutXxX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like him back? If not, say "thanks but I want to stay single right now."
Of course, don't go dating another guy a week later...or change your excuse.
2006-11-26 16:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no to him. If he really likes you he will understand. There are plenty more girls out there and he will find someone else.
2006-11-26 16:01:36 · answer #8 · answered by Sammy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you are not really wanting a realationship but you could be friends it always works for me
2006-11-26 16:00:40 · answer #9 · answered by angie f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u like him? if u do tell him that but also tell him that you arent ready for a realationship at this point in time
2006-11-26 16:00:03 · answer #10 · answered by shortsagitarius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋