2006-11-26 07:56:13 · 13 answers · asked by tony 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what's the matter with everyone these days with guys and you have to be a non-virgin! tell you what man. I'm a pretty girl and I wish there was a man that stayed abstinence. there's nothing wrong with that. if a man sleeps with a lot of women around, it does not mean it's good at sex. it just means he's good-looking or he knows nice things to say to get women in bed. for a man not to have sex, that means he's disciplined enough to control his temptations. I know there's probably lots of god-looking women around and it's hard to resist. if a man looks good and have never had sex, it means he wants to be control of his life and be responsible for their mate when she is pregnant. I'll be happy to be with someone like that! so I wish more men are like you!
2006-11-26 10:54:07 · answer #1 · answered by yennay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thank you for each and all the information, it somewhat helps in supplying you with a greater robust answer. enable's start up with what you have given us. i'm going to do a speedy record: he's in his sexual best, so he could have an interest - a minimum of greater usually than an older guy. No drugs, alcohol or drugs, so as that regulations out a ton of ability problems. college and artwork could be tremendously demanding and the certainty that he's juggling college and artwork concurrently could be hard. it somewhat is very real if he's a conscientious worker and a competent student. So one difficulty to contemplate is to communicate with him approximately his artwork and school and see if there is something he can do to diminish his stress approximately it. yet you provide an rather telling assertion once you say that if "one difficulty is going incorrect, he loses the erection." i'm not an authorized therapist, yet I also have a pal who suffers from severe overall performance stress, and it even impacts his intercourse life. That sentence on my own tells me that a minimum of you may seem up an authorized medical expert - like a sexologist - to communicate how he's feeling for the period of intercourse and what he's questioning approximately. right here is why I propose that. in many healthful sexual relationships, intercourse is so exciting that not something "is going incorrect." We tried that and it wasn't so exciting, so we moved directly to something greater exciting. And the belief of "incorrect" somewhat would not exist. issues artwork, or they don't, yet the two way we are able to have a blast and somewhat savor this. A sexologist, or therapist, or psychiatrist can help him to artwork with the aid of what it somewhat is it somewhat is bugging him. it could have been a bad previous journey, indicators he thinks you're giving, religious guilt, or any style of components. A experienced expert can %. up on those issues right now. And in case you think of roughly it, you're speaking approximately making plans a relatives, so isn't this an investment nicely worth making formerly a mountain of hardships and heartbreaks could probably ensue? How lots time and ability is the two one in all your happiness nicely worth? ultimately, I continuously propose checking with a doctor. it can be a scientific situation it somewhat is giving him situation. perhaps it humiliates him to admit he has a situation. a doctor can help with actual subjects. I choose you success and wish this helps.
2016-10-13 03:58:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like a guy who is willing to wait for the right person to come along the road and that is a very good thing be a leader not a follower cause that makes you better than the wrong person to follow . follow your path not the path of others.
2006-11-26 08:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like a man who has morals and is waiting for the right girl to come around. Kudos.
2006-11-26 07:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by lkjgfyfukh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cautious.
2006-11-26 08:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by Thera 9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds shy, or in touch with his morals.
could be a computer geek, but that's not always the case.
Stick with what you believe in (if it's you).
2006-11-26 07:58:42 · answer #6 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange, but if there's a good excuse for it... adorable and leaves a lot of space for teaching
2006-11-26 07:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by speedy eleni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds hot i would never date a non virgin
2006-11-26 08:08:16 · answer #8 · answered by rightwing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it. i think when you find someone than you will know when it is right. so just keep being yourself.
2006-11-26 08:43:58 · answer #9 · answered by ulamciadilaucurats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds good....that shows u've been responsible and mature...cya
2006-11-26 07:58:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋