His name is Ryan. I guess you could say we have been "together" for 7 years. I think he is prude. He is afriad to kiss me. The thing is though, I love him so much that I am willing to wait. What should I say to him! I am nervous to talk to him because if he is afriad it makes me that way too! If he made the 1st move I wouldn't be so scared but he is the guy so he should be the one doing all this right?? What should I do???
2006-11-26 07:54:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when in a casual conversation, ask him why he never kisses you, does he have a problem with you? try to get him to explain.
2006-11-26 07:58:30 · answer #1 · answered by moi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't understand why after SEVEN years he is afraid to kiss you unless he could very well be gay in denial. Prude describes an aversion to sexual expression or anything that is not 'vanilla' that you do sexually. It could be he is like me and has a fear of rejection and almost never makes a first move for fear of being hurt. Guys do not always have to make the first move... this is the year 2006, not 1706. Agressive women turn on most men bi the way, so why not make a few overt sexual advances or just simply kiss him. Also, try French kissing him bi slipping YOUR tongue in his mouth and see how he reacts... if this turns him on, you may have found your answer... he prefers a more submissive or passive role and there is nothing wrong with that as long as you are secure in your assertiveness and/or dominance of the physical portion of your relationship. Good luck.
2006-11-26 16:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by azcuriousm4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he is NOT the one that has to make the first move. If you want him, tell him, show him...I have to say it again, HINTS DON'T WORK! If you don't tell him, HOW IS HE SUPPOSED TO KNOW what you want or what your thinking???? I hear so many women scream about communication, and y'all are the worst communicators. You have a seriously hard time communicating at all. Just say it don't hint or give clues or hope he will figure it out. I'm here to tell you ladies, HE WON'T!! Just tell him!!
2006-11-26 16:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be afraid!!! its okay if you make the first move!! and you should do it!! jsut kiss him and see how he reacts to that! youll know after that. My friend and my best friend have the same problem. the one seems to be prude but he is just in fact a quite person and is not prude one bit!!lol! so GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-11-26 15:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by swimgirl 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is the dude straight? Afraid to kiss? That doesn't sound like any guy I know or have ever known. Just tell him your going to find somebody else to take care of your physical needs if he doesn't.
2006-11-26 15:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by Dud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1st of all mi bf and i made out in da 1st 5 days but trust me guys think it is sexxi when u make da 1st move so just either talk 2 him about it or make da move someone has 2 do first and if it aint gonna b you than who is? good luck sweetie :)
2006-11-26 15:59:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, now i don't mean 4 this 2 sound tacky, but maybe he's gay.. and hangs around you as a front.. 7 years and no kisses is a sign that something isn't quiet right with that man.. bummer eh..
2006-11-26 16:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab him and kiss him hard, that will bring him around. Do it when he least expects it.
2006-11-26 15:59:16 · answer #8 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jump his bones.
2006-11-26 15:57:00 · answer #9 · answered by FunBetty! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋