yesterday i went out with some girl there(not a good idea) and then i met her parents.they are like the "perfect" family.the mother is such a snob(american) and she hates latinos(some of my family is puerto rican) and the father is such an a** he thinks shes too good for me.he even said this in my face these were his exact words" where do you find your boyfriends in the street" i just sat there and took it all in. today i called her house and the father answered saying"get the f*** away from my daughter you scum sh*t.i was so mad i literally cursed him out..i dont know what to do shes a great girl shes smart nice and shes NOTHING like her retarded parents. what do i do?
btw:im 14 and my grades are better than hers! but still her parents think shes too good for me!
2006-11-26 07:51:49 · 11 answers · asked by jason m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Her parents are racist dear. You can't change that.
If you were older, I would say ignore it, they will get over it. Sadly, you are too young to drive and you don't have your own life set up away from everything as to give them an example of how you aren't all these stereotypes and these horrible racist things they keep talking about.
Oh, cussing out the daddy wasn't the best of moves by the by.
I would release myself from the relationship. Tell her you think her parents are racist and mean and you don't want to deal with that. Tell her that if she talks to them and she thinks she can change their minds about their behavior, you will resume the relationship...otherwise move on.
Her parents are horrible. I am sorry for that, but they are big in her life right now and no matter how great she is...she cant escape them. Maybe later on in life you two can get together, if you still feel that way later on.
2006-11-26 07:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by Thera 9 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 16:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be smooth act like you worship the ground she walks on. Be nice and next time you see her father say, sir I would like to apologize for my rude behavior earlier. It was out of my character and I would like you to know how special your daughter is to me. Compliment her mother, you have to raise the parents till they think they have your respect. Also if they won't shut up about the race thing, I'd say out loud to no one imparticular. Wow, _______(fill in gf's name) you are more beautiful than anything I'm ever seen! Don't even mention her race! If the parents don't care how much you care for their daughter say ' love has no color' and walk off. You shouldn't have to deal with that kind of pressure! Just hold onto her, don't let her go just cause of her parents!
2006-11-26 08:02:49 · answer #3 · answered by charleston_chic_323 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've got two options...
1. if you don't want the drama (and possibly the stress) that you get from the parents, leave the girl.
2. but you like (and maybe love) her that much, talk with the parents and ask 'why you hate me so much?' try showing them you're the perfect guy for their baby girl.
and here's a bonus for you....never ever cus out your girl's parents. that some bad crap for you from your girl and her parents. its a definate NO NO. that's just showing them you have absolutely no respect for her parents.
good luck wit that
2006-11-26 08:07:34 · answer #4 · answered by ** i Am hiS giRL ** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should talk to your girlfriend tell her how her family have been treating you as she shoud stick up for to don't worry about the mother my mother in law is just as stuck up and as for the dad prove to him that you can get along find out what his intrest are from your girlfriend eg football or rugby and maybe work on it from there if that does not work don't worry about them as long as you and your girlfriend are happy that all that matters
2006-11-26 08:01:02 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsay D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your only 14 i would just move on cause if her parents are like that i am sure she will end up just like them im sorry but you dont need that stufff when you are so young cause all it is gonna do is lower your self eisteem
2006-11-26 07:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by angie f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would try to take it as much as possible with out cracking they are just like drill sergents they are looking and waiting for you to crack but you can't show a sign of weakness.you have to prove that you are fit for their daughter.
2006-11-26 08:00:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the fact that you are 14 tells me she is young also, so I really think both of you are too young to be dating. God bless****
2006-11-26 07:57:49 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stay away from her,otherwise they would make your life miserable and hers too. if you were older, and she was the love of your life,i would have said fight for her love,but you are young to get into complications
2006-11-26 07:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by confuse06 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
f*** her in front of her parents, just playing
you can ether seek out with her or try to prove to her parents that your a good kid
2006-11-26 07:56:21 · answer #10 · answered by jes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋