I need girl advice!!!?

Question

I have liked this girl for such a long time, she is seriously the perfect girl in every way. I'm in college and shes a couple years younger than me and is in high school but i go to school pretty near home. whenever im home we hang out a lot and she is really flirtacious with me. whenever im at school she always texts messages me and IMs me telling me how much she misses me and wants me to come home and the other day right when i got home for thanksgiving she called me to see when I was going to come visit her. I'm always at her house, because her brother is my best friend, which is terrible i know but i like her too much to stop. she wanted to hang out with me all the time when i was home for the break. Some days im sure she likes me especially when she tells me how much she misses me, but other days im sure she doesnt like me and acts weird around me. What should I do? I have never liked a girl this much and she is the only one i want but she is so confusing and i need help!Thanks

I'm a sophomore in college and shes a senior in high school, so 2 year age difference. and i guess that maybe i should give her more space. its just hard to be over at her house everyday and not want to spend time with her, but she is definitely a girl that needs space. basically she just means a lot to me i think she is the coolest, most beautiful girl in the world and i dont want to mess this up

Answer 1

how big is the age gap?

Answer 2

Have you tried sitting down and talking to her about her feelings? Have you let her know that her actions are very confusing? I'd start with those two things, and I suspect, before long, you'll have your answers. High school girls are very immature and aren't sure what they want out of life yet. In her eyes, she's having fun and getting what she wants, >>when<< she wants it. It's a double edge sword. To someone like you, who is looking for a committment, it's very confusing. Some days she flirts, wants you, other days, she wont give you the time of day. Who wouldn't be confused. I'd nail her down and ask her point blank.

Answer 3

Well, One she's your best friends sister... That's a big Problem... You need to tell the brother/your best friend how you feel about her and ask for permission... Brothers tend to be over protective of their Sisters... The brother will respect the fact you asked... If you don't have the player back round then the brother wouldn't have any reason to say you can't date her... Then tell her how you feel, see if she feels the same way... She shows all the signs of liking you, but the fact you her brothers best friend may be pulling her away...

Answer 4

first things first. make sure your friend knows and is okay with it. It would be awful for things to work out and then have you friend flip out. And in all honesty its not worth it to lose a friend over a girl. And come from myself who is a girl thats pretty hard for any of us to admit.

second. TALK TO HER. your never going to know exactly how she feels until you tell her how you feel...because maybe she secretly really likes you too? Dont sit around wondering what would happen if she liked you too. Make things happen. Because if you dont, in the future your going to look back and have a lot of whats ifs and wonder what might have been.

good luck! :D

Answer 5

Maybe she's not sure if you come over to see her, or her brother since he is your best friend. Don't just "hang out," do something special with her - an official date. Go for it! She may end up being the love of your life....

Answer 6

Keep in mind this girl's age. Of course, she is going to "act weird" sometimes. She is obviously taken with you. Don't mess up your friendship with her brother over this. Tell him of your feelings and hers. Then ask him if it would hurt your relationshsip if you went out with her. You will have to be honest with him. Treat her well and I doubt the friend will mind. Brothers always want good guys for their sisters.

Answer 7

talk to the girl...ask her whats goin on wit her.ask her if she likes u or just likes u as a friend and tell her how u feel.i kno...tellin someone how u feel is the hardest thing thing to do but it can be worth it if the news is good.Then if she does like u then talk to her brother,cuase u kno brothers are protective and let him kno exactly how u feel about her and make sure u let him kno that ur not gonna hurt her.but yeah,good luck and hope it all works out,i kno its gonna be hard to do but it will be worth it if it does work out wit u and her.later

Answer 8

I have been in this one. You should ask her brother and he probably could give you a very good perspective on his sister. Then you wont feel so bad because he will be aware of your fondness for his sister. Some guys don't take to kindly to their friends scoping on their little sis. Good Luck

Answer 9

well for one she is still in high school and she really doesn't know what she wants probably. Try talking to her and letting her know how you feel and try to understand how she feels. But it is interfering with school take a break from it

Answer 10

sometimes us girls need to have some space...so whenever you feel like she is acting weird then just let her be...she will like you a lot more when she knows that you wont bother her when she needs some time alone! good luck :)

Answer 11

Dude she likes you, go for the kill and ask her out....but be careful, you didnt mention how much younger than you she is, if she is under 18 than get away from her and DONT EVEN THINK ABOUT IT!!!