Were not gonna make out, just hang out and stuff! She thinks we will do " Bad stuff " But we wont. We jst want to have fun. How can i convince her, for him to come here? My house?
2006-11-26 07:33:29 · 15 answers · asked by M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have him come over and meet your mom...this will help her get to understand where he is coming from and give her an idea if she can trust him or not...if he acts like a gentlemen around her then she will most likely trust him enough to let you go over to his house
2006-11-26 07:37:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? How old is he? Would there be an adult home when you were hanging at his house or your house?
If an adult is present, I see no issue with young people "hanging out"...however if you want to spend time together alone, and you are both minors...well...your Mom remembers how it was to be a young person, and what was on many boy's minds (and girls too).
She's looking out for your best interest and not wanting you to get into something you aren't ready to handle...even if you have no intention of making out, sometimes things happen that we don't plan...that'll be true even when you are grown.
Talk to her about allowing you two to spend time together when either she is home, or his mom is home...but otherwise, I doubt she'll give in unless you two are both older teens...I wouldn't.
2006-11-26 15:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mother loves you. She wants only the very best for you. She is older, and with age comes wisdom, she knows what boys can talk you into (trouble) If you want to hang out w/ him, ask your mom if he can come to your place where she can know your safe
2006-11-26 15:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by trekkie706 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This mostly depends on your age! my parents wouldn't even let me date until i was 16!!! and it took them until i was 16 to let me go over to guys's house! first take a step back and understand its because your mom is worried about you.... she probably doesn't want you to get hurt or get pregnaut. and yes we knwo you won't get pregnaut but parents still dont' trust teenagers... So talk to your mom about it.. Tell your mom that you are mature enough about this matter to keep a boyfriend and you aren't going to have sex for a long long long time...Ask if you can't go to his house if he can come to yours WHILE she is home so she can keep an eye out for you.. say he won't go in your room and he will stay with you watching movies in the living room or something so she can peek on you whenever she wants... with over protective parents they have to GROW to trust you... you can't just beg for trust... she will trust you when she sees you guys being all innnocent and eventually let you go to his house etc.. good luck!!!! it worked for me!
2006-11-26 15:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by LIZ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let her meet him and the family and tell her that a responsable person will be there and then she might let u go
also just let ur parents trust u more and try sayin that if u trust me i'll prove 2 u who i really am
2006-11-26 15:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by Caitlin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom is just watching out for you..
Bring b/f over to your house..
2006-11-26 15:35:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you want her to meet someone, tell her about his history and stuff, dress him appropriately.
Talk with your mother but don't look angry.
Hope he come over.
2006-11-26 15:38:37 · answer #7 · answered by moi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could set boundaries with your mom and boyfriend.
That way if something turns into something else, you know when to stop. Show her that she can trust, respect and honor you.
2006-11-26 15:36:38 · answer #8 · answered by Sen10r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and ask her to let him come to your house and keep an eye on you 2 and see nothing ever happens
2006-11-26 15:35:27 · answer #9 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about why she doesn't really trust you. Maybe you just need to prove to her that you are mature now.
2006-11-26 15:35:33 · answer #10 · answered by Allyson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋