I feel like I will always be the girl who is just friends with guys but nothing more. Is there some way I can change this yet still have guys as my friends?
Advice wanted!
2006-11-26 07:30:29 · 11 answers · asked by Sen10r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just to let you people know, I am a girl.
Yeah
Asking guys out isn't the easiest thing.
Yes Yes we should all try harder.
Thanks for the advice guys
Most of you were right on target.
:)
M
2006-11-26 07:41:28 · update #1
well you have to question your self what am i doing? Are you pouring your feelings out to them? are you just that cool girl they like to kick it with? How do i look when i am around them? Am i attracted to them? Dress a little different but don't change your self just to please others maybe it is not time for a relationship and the best relationships start as friends and last longer. So just be patient and if you believe in God ask him to send you someone and be specific in what you want when asking him
2006-11-26 07:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by ms. understood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably don't excite guys enough, you have a lot of value as a friend and probably a nice little homemaker of a wife, but you probably don't show enough sex appeal. Maybe be a little more honest about what you want sexually and show that you are a sexual creature. The way you dress and how you wear your makeup. There is a reason why women wear make up!
2006-11-26 15:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them out. You may have a problem with this, but it's a surefire way to have a chance. You may never get asked out on a date, and if you don't take the initiative you will never go on a date.
Find a guy you like, feel comfortable with, and are friends with, and ask him out! I'm sure that he'll accept. You're lucky that you have many guy friends, that actually makes it easier.
I'm not out there for sex, and there are a lot of guys that are like me. You don't need to change to get dates, but people might not know you're looking for one.
Good luck!
2006-11-26 15:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by Aegor R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Boys are only looking for one thing anyway, you are probably not the type of girl that boys are seeking at this time. (GOOD 4 U) ! In due time, the boys will show interest. At that time the right one will be there for you. Take this time to concentrate on school and get yourself an education. Do what you need to do to be who you want to be. Boys will always be there. Take care!
2006-11-26 15:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by Lumpy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll give you a guys advice (from a guy who hasn't had a girlfriend in many years):
Find a type of guy that is willing to please and loyal. These types will only have eyes for you.
That is all I can offer without more information.
2006-11-26 15:33:34 · answer #5 · answered by snipertkc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, if guys don't ask you out, ask them out, tell them if they want to see a movie or eat something together. Maybe they find you too attractive.
I hope you get asked. Good luck
2006-11-26 15:35:29 · answer #6 · answered by moi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be charming with the ladies, and not as friendly. dont try to be friends, try to be a confident hottie who wants to be with a woman, and dosnt want just to be friends with everyone. you can do that and stay friends with the guys bc your not trying to charm the guys so it shouldnt matter how you act twoards your goal to get a date.
2006-11-26 15:33:53 · answer #7 · answered by Chelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act really girly around them. If they are true friends then acting girly won't make them stop wanting to be your friend.
2006-11-26 15:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by Sammy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe do like i did and ask THEM out. guys can be shy, just like us. so yea try asking them out instead of waiting for them to ask you out
2006-11-26 15:35:53 · answer #9 · answered by shortsagitarius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will be ok. you will find someone.
2006-11-26 15:33:01 · answer #10 · answered by utopian.outcast 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋