I deeply care for a friend who is 33. He likes to go to casino's. I have feelings for him that I know I shouldn't have because of the age difference. When we go out, it is always at my expense, even to lunch or dinner and yes I give him money to gamble with. Crazy, yes I am! How do I stop the feelings I have for him and leting him take advantage of me?
2006-11-26 07:27:02 · 6 answers · asked by laineelf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are you sure thats its feelings that you have or is that you are just so lost without your spouse since you said you was widowed in feb of this year sorry for your loss sounds like to me you are still in the grieving process and this other guy is there to fill the empty spot in your life right now try doing things without him for a while and give yourself sometime to get over the loss of your spouse
2006-11-26 07:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by dkay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
admitting having a problem is the first step to resolving it. This is something that you and you alone will have to work out. Use logic, instead of emotion to figure it out.YES YOU CAN!
2006-11-26 15:35:00 · answer #2 · answered by trekkie706 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to hit the road find some one your own age,your the one letting it happen do something about it
2006-11-26 15:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by Droptine s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's the rebound guy. Take time and stop giving him your $$$$!!!!!! Find someone who will be a friend of yours.
2006-11-26 15:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop seeing him - its very simple - but its not easy
2006-11-26 15:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
silly rabbit being used is for kids
2006-11-26 15:30:29 · answer #6 · answered by Ronnie P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋