Ok so yeah i might be a bit young but i supose it could be called "Puppy love" because i am only 13. Well anyway, my x boyfriend and I were going out for about four months, then about a day after we "properly" kissed, he started to ***** about me, saying i was a rubbish kisser and also he called me a fridge, he is 13 aswell but even though most girls dont find him atractive, he belives that he is "gods gift" , if you get what im getting at? well any way before we were going out he started to text me and asked me out also he said he wouldnt dump me because he "Loved" me. We dont go to the same secondary schools and we are both in year eight (English system of schooling) I dont want to go back out with him but i sort of want him to "love" me again so then if he did ask me out, i could hurt him back and say that i dont want to go out with him because he bitched about me.. etc.
so is this normal or is he just driving me crazy!
Sorry if my spelling and/or grammer is wrong bt im dislexic
2006-11-26 07:21:39 · 21 answers · asked by XxXToMuchToThinkAboutXxX 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah i dont understand it....some guys just can't afford to be picky. It beats me how they get away with it
2006-11-26 07:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are that young and think of "getting" him back it could be normal but, why start being mean just because he hurt your feelings? There is this thing called karma that will come back to you 10 fold. Or in another words don't forget the golden rule.
Don't let him know he hurt you and move on. You are a kid with tons of time to fall in like or love. School is more important than a boy talking bad because he did'nt like the way you kissed. The best way to "get" back at him is to put your chin up and don't let him see what he has done. Tell him what he said got back to you and your done. Don't let him come back to you or you will be repeating patterns that may develop into adluthood. If it got back to you then he probably said it. Who knows kids and adults play games too. Don't waste you time on boys. Study and think abou t the future. I don't know if you can do this but, when I was in school I wasted a lot of time on boys. When you are older the time will come for true love.
2006-11-26 07:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by Rosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not shallow and are absolutely normal...you are now living in the world of hormones and they speak before brains do. Who knows why people say the "stupid stuff" they do, but it isn't your problem.
When he ask you out again, you can simply say you just don't have a lot in common and though you think he is a nice guy you think it would be better to not go out again; this would be a way that you don't get on that yucky level of he said, she said, but can remain somewhat as friends. You will be the better person for it and he won't have any ammunition if he should try to lie and save face.
2006-11-26 07:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by OPTIMIST 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes your feelings are normal but the best way to handle this situation is to act like you no longer care for him by either ignoring him or showing an interest in another boy. Being mean or getting revenge is a quick way to ruin your reputation. Showing your true character can attract or repel boyfriends both now and in your future. If you act maturely about this now, you won't regret your actions tomorrow.
2006-11-26 07:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by lrachels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen your young, don't worrier about it. All this is that he wants to look good in front of his friends it's all about popularity in school. Don't sink to his level, I do recommending getting a new boyfriend and just to put him in his place kiss your new boy friend right in front of him his friends, you get the point. Any how there is nothing wrong with your kissing I'm sure your young and have not learned the art of kissing yet, but that comes with time, The first time you ride a bike you usually fall so don't sweet it if you do then he wins. Please be safe and take your time life is long and there are Meany roads ahead of you. Have fun.
2006-11-26 07:29:29 · answer #5 · answered by matt v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 13 and I even get those feelings when i'm 17 now!!! to hurt someone you liked or loved because they hurt you.. but take a step back doesn't that sound immature.? ??? be the grown up.. move on and forget about him... once he finds out that will hurt him more if you really wanted to in the first place.... but you shouldn't think of it that terms.. find someone else who will treat you right and make you happier... are his feeling sreally worth it? he shoudlnt' be driving you crazy he is an asshole!!!! and at age 13 he probably doesn't really " love" you.. may think he does and maybe it is puppy love... but if he really loves you now saying no you don't want to go out with him again will hurt him enough..... you deserve better. He'sn ot worth worrying about .. good luck! trust me! you meet tons and tons of guys in the future!
2006-11-26 07:27:49 · answer #6 · answered by LIZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your spelling is good for thirteen. As for the guy, he's just trying to get attention from other people. Realize that you are both young and have a lot of growing up to do. Don't waste time trying to plan ways to hurt him just because he hurt you emotionally. If I were you, I'd stop giving him attention. That way you'll be doing the best for both of you. He'll stop putting you down in front of other people, and he'll understand that you don't need to rely on him.
2006-11-26 07:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me just say that you should just let him go his way. Revenge is a dish best served cold. You don't want to be cold now do you? You're too young to be worried about stupid little boys. They don't know what they are talking about when it comes to girls. When I was 13 I still had toys and played video games all the time. Get a new boyfriend.
2006-11-26 07:32:06 · answer #8 · answered by Roll'n Bluntz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say to this is that you are both only 13. Don't rush into things. There is plenty of time to get to know boys. You should focus on your studies if anything, but since you are at that age where boys are starting to pay attention to you, all I can really tell you is that you really can't take boys that seriously...especially at that age. This boy is just that: a BOY. He doesn't know any different and he is just testing the waters and exploring himself.
2006-11-26 07:24:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erm - wow...
I forgot how much I thought at you age - you're quite intelligent and thoughtful... I'm impressed.
Anyway - find someone else. He sounds like an arrogant twad, and not worth your time.
Find a guy to date that likes you for you, and isn't a self centered jerk.
You deserve better, and dating him for revenge just demeans you.
Just not worth it. Do some fantasies while you're going to sleep about nasty things you could do to him - but don't bother actually doing them.
You're above that, and him.
Peace,
-dh
2006-11-26 07:27:18 · answer #10 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it drive you crazy go on with your life and find someone who respects you for being you. He is not the last person you will ever meet. Get involved with school activities and friends. If you worry about him or hate him then you bind yourself forrever to him. Kick this one to the curb. You will never know anyone else if you don't.
2006-11-26 07:25:09 · answer #11 · answered by queenmaeve172000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋