Whenever my kid acts up or does somethng bad, I dont actually get annoyed with my childs crying or whining...but the sound of his dads voice yelling at him to stop..that irritates me more than the kids crying by far!
2006-11-26 06:52:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
No, I'm totally with you. My wife's screeching is far worse than the 4yo's behaviour; the adult should remain calm, the kid is still learning how to.
2006-11-26 06:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by Minmi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whining is irritating, and when a child is allowed to do it or parents give in to them, it creates problems down the line. He should not yell, but slightly raising your voice so they know you mean business is OK. My son is 2 and he knows what certain vocal tones mean. He knows if I raise my voice that he had better stop doing what he is doing or he will get a time out.
2006-11-26 06:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason Dads voice is irritating is because you and dad have different views on how to raise your child. What seems to not be a big bother in your childs behavior, is in dadseye's you should talk with dad and find a happy medium.
2006-11-26 07:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by Wiseguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quasimodo is right, if you feel that much contempt for your significant other because he fails to model the behavior he expects from your children and you both fail to communicate and resolve this festering issue then it looks like you need to cut your losses now and leave as soon as possible ,it just gets worse from here unless you are both willing to work on your differences and actively try to eliminate the contempt issue which physiologically is like the number one indicator that divorce is pending according to all the studies
2006-11-28 05:42:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Usually it is very annoying because than you have him screaming at the kid to stop and the kids cried harder.try to take your kid to another room and talk with him by yourself.
2006-11-26 06:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by realistic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the dad to stop that will just make it worst and i think that is why you get annoyed! Because you know it wont stop you'll just have two people being loud!
2006-11-26 06:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by In love 4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope ... you are not the only one! I know exactly what you mean. And it feels like no matter how many times you talk to good 'ol Dad about it, he still loses it every once in a while.
2006-11-26 06:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hate the old man. Judging by your remarks regarding the hamburger and fries routine on 11/22 i'd say the handwriting's on the wall. Time to pack up the tent and move on. Seriously.
2006-11-27 07:57:12 · answer #8 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell your husband that you guys should start treating you kid in a more humane manner. (i.e. if you don't clean your room, you don't get to eat cookies)
2006-11-26 06:55:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats normal. I feel the same way sometimes.
2006-11-26 07:13:11 · answer #10 · answered by Blondi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋