I am pregnant with my b/f's kid. When I told him he said he would be there for me through out it all. Would you guys have ditched or stayed?? Does it mean we may actually have a real relationship?? Should I be glad he wants to help??
We are 19. Would he have left me if he didn't care??
He says he has something for me tonight. My friend says that his friend says he's gonna propose. Should I say yes??
2006-11-26 06:45:39 · 3 answers · asked by Kiah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a really tough situation that you are in and I wish you the best. To address your questions though, while I personally would want to be involved in the birth and raising of my child, I cannot predict how your boyfriend will react. I am older however and both of you are young and the full impact of your situation has not yet hit the two of you.
I do not know how close the two of you are or how long you have been together, but your boyfriend has a legal obligation to care for the child, regardless whether he stays or ditches.
As for the possibility of your boyfriend proposing, I would take it real slow at this point. The two of you are already facing a lot of pressure with the prospect of having the child -- the idea of suddenly getting married (when the two of you may not be ready to commit to each other for life at this point) will just add further pressure to your lives. The two of you need to focus your energies on the child coming into your lives right now.
2006-11-26 06:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by LewAR26502 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it might work out. You want it t work and if he propses then say yes if you feel you should. Because most women like my sister would want to have a marriage/relationship. With there babys father. I think it will presonally work with you and your soon to be fiance. Wish you and your soon to be family the best of luck.
2006-11-26 14:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by Shizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him then marry him.
2006-11-26 14:48:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋