why is it most of the time when i talk to my girlfriend i get shy and could only say a few words before i go sileint.but when im with my friends im outgoing loud and talk a lot.why is it that im shy around her please help me!
2006-11-26 06:32:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we been going out for 3 weeks now
2006-11-26 06:38:35 · update #1
it depends on how long yall have been going out/known each other. if she was your friend before yall started going out or if yall have been together for a while then u shouldnt be weird around her or if u are the maybe its cuz u havent adjusted to the change yet. if u just met her then it just takes a while to get used to people. your nerves should be gone in a while either way
2006-11-26 06:36:58 · answer #1 · answered by b2k4ever08 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look if you really like the girl you just have to say enough to let her know. Don't make a situation uncomfortable. Make a safe topic like TV or movies. Then what you should do is rent a movie she likes and that you won't truly hate make some popcorn and then freedom from speech for about an hour. But never and I repeat NEVER have the only thing coming from your mouth when your around her be ' Your beautiful' or anything along those lines. She knows you think she's pretty that's why your with her. And if you feel like you can't be yourself around her it either is really good or really bad. If you think she won't like you for who you are then throw who you are out at her. If she doesn't like you then break it off. If you just don't know what to say just ask her ' So what's on your mind?' Girl's like to know that you want to know what's on their mind. Plus girls like it when you care so pamper but not overly spoil her cause then she's with you for you not her. Hope I could help! :)
2006-11-26 06:43:00 · answer #2 · answered by charleston_chic_323 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happens to me around my bf. ok, so here's what you do. make sure you know some topics that you both share interest in. while talking about that, make a few jokes so she laughs. this way, the topic wont die out as easily, because shes likely to tell you one of her own stories that relate. you dont have to talk about things that can only bf/gf topics. talk about anything, it doesnt matter. talking loosens up the atmosphere so you wont be as shy. soon you'll be totally comfortable around her. its the same logic when people go shopping. when they get to the malls, theyre tight with theyre money. when they start spending, theyre totally loose with it. comfort is key :D
2006-11-26 06:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 23:21:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find something in common to ask her an open ended question about. Girls like to talk about themselves. An open ended question requires more than a yes or no answer.Comment on how nice her hair smells, or you like her shoes. What does she use in her hair that makes it so nice. or where did she find her shoes, they look terrific on her?
2006-11-26 06:38:45 · answer #5 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probley that u just like her alot and don't want to say anything stupid! just let go of that talk to her dont be shy
2006-11-26 06:35:04 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's becuz u want to inpress her and u dont want to make a fool out of you'reself. YOu might be in love have u ever thought about that?
2006-11-26 06:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to talk to her more and try to know her more..... think of her a more of a friend than a GF
2006-11-26 06:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by Peter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U AND YOUR GF ARE NOT THE SOME SO IT IS GOING TO BE HARDER TO TALK TO HER)))) U ARE A BOY >>>>SHE IS A GIRL >>>> GIRLS AND BOYS THINK DIFFRENTLY)))))SO THE E-ZEST WAY TO MAKE IT E-ZER TO TALK TO YOUR GF IS TO SPENED MORE TIME WITH HER #@*&%
2006-11-26 09:30:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously like her alot, and she intimadates you
i know its hard but if shes your girl dont worry about it she obviously likes yout too!
2006-11-26 06:34:35 · answer #10 · answered by musicalxcrash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋