Ok so everytime i tell my mom that i want a puppy she says no because i had a guinea pig before but i got tired of it because it didn't do anything fun....it was just cute.....so i gave it to my cousin, but now i want a puppy but my mom won't let me have one because she thinks i'm just gonna get tired of it too.....so how do i prove to her that i'm ready to have a puppy??!!
2006-11-26 06:23:28 · 15 answers · asked by Smile :) 2 in Pets ➔ Dogs
There is also finacial responsibilities that go along with having a puppy. All of the puppy visits can get pretty pricey with all the shots that are needed. Then there is also the cost of the neutering/spaying and anything else that may come up. Not to mention the food, toys, any grooming it may need. So even if you are right and won't get bored with it . . . your mom will still have to be responsible for all these other things, unless you have a job and can help out. I can understand her concerns because in most cases, moms are right and the kids do get bored once they are not cute little puppies anymore. Plus, are you going to potty train? Some dogs can take up to a year to train . . depending on the dog. Dogs are a lot of work. Be sure that you are ready for all of the responsibilities that come with being a dogmom. Research some breeds to see the pro's and con's of each . . how much exercise do they need, do they need grooming, what are common health issues, tempermant, etc. Then if she agrees, find a reputable breeder. Do not buy from a pet store or a puppymill. Or you can check out your local shelters and/or rescues for pups in need of a loving home. Also, remember . . dogs can live for 15+ years . . . they are meant to be a part of your family . . . . not to end up tied up in the back yard or left alone bc they are not that cute little puppy anymore. I hope you both make the right decision.
2006-11-26 06:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by sweet_carmel_angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was a story about a boy who wanted a pet more than anything in the world. The way he proved to his mom that he could and would take care of a pet was to invent an imaginary puppy. He would set out a bowl of pretend food and a bowl for water. He made a leash and collar. He took his pretend puppy for walks and gave it lessons on how to sit and stay. He did everything you would do for a real puppy, even pretend play. He did this everyday until his mom realized he really was serious about being responsible about loving and taking care of a pet. Then she let him get a real one.
You could do the same thing, you could even use a stuffed animal. Be patient though, it may be weeks even months before your mom is convinced. She's going to want to sure that you can keep your promises about the puppy Shots and food cost a lot more than guinea pigs and puppies take up more time..... they need attention, exercise and training.
2006-11-26 06:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by zoointheburbs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how old you are, but one reason is that you could be too young. If that isnt the case then show her that you are responsible, like offer to take care of your siblings, or do chores around the house with out being asked. I had the exact same problem. My parents were completely against getting a dog. Mostly because of the potty training. Maybe there are some other reasons such as potty training that your mom is worried about. If that is the case the news paper has a ton of dogs for sale and there are usually adult dogs that are about a year old that are already potty trained and know basic commands. These type of dogs are usually in the paper because their family's are moving or cannot take care of the dog anymore. We finnally convinced our parents that we would get an older dog like that but we did end up getting a puppy. Also the main thing that convinced our parents is when our neighbors got a dog from their aunt because she was unable to care for her. Since we are really good friends we watched their dog a lot and we got a good chance to show our parents how it would be like to have a dog in the house. If you dont have a neighbor you could always ask your friends if you could have their dog over for a couple of hours maybe on the weekend. Just tell them your problem and i'm sure they would want to help.
2006-11-26 06:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sad truth is I have a 13 year old daughter who has had way to many things including 3 dogs and she has never showed an interest in the dogs past the puppy stage. I made her volunteer at the pound after her 2nd dog died (hit by car). She always wants to play with the dog when other people are interested but no other time. She now junior handles my Staffordshire! The up side of all of it. I don't know how old you are or what your interests are but a few things you can do is:
Volunteer at the local pound.
Join a dog training facility and learn how to show handle or do obedience.
Attend a dog show or two and be a spectator.
Study the type of breed that you are interested in and spend some time with that breed.
Check the classifieds for the breed you enjoy and see if you can go look at the litter of pups and make friends with a breeder.
Walk, care for, groom and pick up poop of other peoples dogs.
Subscribe to dog fancy and dogs for kids magazine.
If all else fails beg for a baby sister or brother and chances are your parent will get you a dog.
2006-11-26 11:32:29 · answer #4 · answered by Tenners 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-26 06:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How long ago did you have this guinea pig? Your mother knows you much better then anyone out here in cyber space does...
A puppy is going to take at least 10 years of your life, are you ready for this?
Go volunteer at the human society or some other place taking care of critters for a while. If you do not get tired of this then your mother will see you will not get tired of your own puppy :0)
My kids always have critters around, but I do not let them get anything I myself do not want. I always end up taking care of whatever creature they want at the time....
2006-11-26 06:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I'm hearing about the guinea pig, you aren't ready. But, if you feel that you are really ready, here are some tips that will help you. First, you could show your mother that you are responsible. Clean the house, take out the trash, do the dishes, or something without your mom asking. Prove to her that you are truly responsible and maybe care for a frog or something. :)
2006-11-26 06:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by Kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well one argument you can give your mom is that a puppy is easier to relate to, they have a personality and they love you back. They become a member of the family and truely are a blessing to have around. Maby you can suggest to your mom that you could foster a dog for a while to show her that you are ready to be a responsible pet owner, you will have to feed the dog everyday, make sure they have clean water all the time, you will have to groom the dog, make sure he/she gets all of the shots, wormers, flea meds, it will have to be walked each day, and played with, and it will have to be potty trained which is very time consuming. A dog is a LOT of responsibility and hard work, so make sure this is something you are willing to do because it isn't fair to the dog if you just want to give up because you get bored. Good luck!
2006-11-26 06:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by crissyk24 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing is first, do NOT whine. If you don't get something right, do not whine about it. Just ask like an adult and take your punishment or whatever responsibly. If you whine then your parents are going to believe that you are not responsible.
Second thing is to help out around the house. Keep your room clean, and help out around the house, by cleaning, or doing laundry or something. But, do it without being asked. If you don't know what to do then ask your parents for some ideas on what you could help out with around the house, they will probably gladly give you a couple of ideas.
Third don't get discouraged. It took my mom 9 years for me to get a puppy, but when she saw the Yorkshire Terrier breed she just fell in love, so we got one. Don't get discouraged if it doesn't seem to be helping. Anything can happen!!
Good Luck, and if you do get one, enjoy it, they are awesome!
2006-11-26 06:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by bored_rena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm....well the first thing is when you adopt a pet you should never EVER get tired of it,because they are like humans they still remember you,just imagen you would be taking away cuz your mom was tired of you......yeah see how that works,and if you want a dog you will have to know that you wouldent be the only one who would be taking care of it,because yuou have school and your mom will have to do everything.
just prove it by getting back the guinea pig and just LOVE it because you know what it loves you.
dont just do something like that to an animal.
and right now i have 9 dogs.
you know y?
because when i was little i didnt think,i was stupid AND foolish,
so my mom let me have as much dogs as i wanted she was like youll regret it,and i was like NO!
see she wanted me to learn bymyself.
so maybe you should wait a couple years when your not going to just get tired of it,DOGS ARE SO MUCH WORSE THAN A GUINEA PIG!okey you have to clean it pees on your bed it makes a mess in your mom and doesnt let you go to sleep it tears your homework,do you understand?
please do.
email me at natasha_cocker@yahoo.com i have a surprise for you if you really want a dog.
Natasha
2006-11-26 07:06:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋