across the face.lol I think he deserved it for his remarks but I told him to get out and everything, Am I over reacting for his remark because this is my house not his and I told him to leave? Am I wrong, he wanted to talk about it but I sad fu, what do you think I should do in this situation, I know i need to lose weight, but he has no right to talk to me that way espcially when he is fat!!?
2006-11-26 05:59:30 · 13 answers · asked by luckylove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You go girl!
He has no right!
I'm sure he will remember his manners from now on. You don't have to be thin to be in...He should love you for you not your size. Health is one issue, but it sounds like he was rude and disrespectful.
2006-11-26 06:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by tbonz 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't think it was right to slap him, but telling him to get out was probably a very good idea. Regardless of whether he is 'fat' as well, or not, isn't the point. The point is, him saying anything to you about your weight isn't right. At least, not if it wasn't out of honest concern. What exactly did he say to you?
If it wasn't something that showed honest concern for your life/health, then I wouldn't feel bad about asking him to leave. Things like that are considered verbal abuse, and often turn into physical abuse. It's a warning sign. I'd pay attention to it.
2006-11-26 14:03:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well comments can slip out, but repeated ones can hurt.
He was right when he wanted to talk about it but you also had every right to kick him out of your house. Take a day or two off and forget about it, then you can talk calmy so you wont react with a slap like before
2006-11-26 14:04:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could have acted toward him with words too. i am sure what he said hurt you, but that did not give you any reason to slap him. if he had slapped you across the face you would probably be on her whining and crying about having an abusive boyfriend. if he has any sense he will leave you alone and stay away from you.
2006-11-26 14:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's ok.Anyone would react that way.He just want's to help that's all.Try to talk to him and work things out.If u do wanna lose weight try Jenny Craig or Weight Watchers.I'm overweight too,but I'm too oung to be on one of those diets.
2006-11-26 14:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by leecymeow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all,nobody deserves to be hit in the face.How would you like it if he hit you in the face?Both of you need to talk things over with no hitting.
2006-11-26 14:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by phockit47 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay! well he's fat too, eh!? interesting.
i'm sure you can forgive eachother. try and work on it together. that would be exciting, and you'd start to see the results at the same time right? imagine how sexy that would be...
talk to him maturely about it. admit to eachother that you want to change and i think you guys will be alright. If he won't admit, and work on what you want to then he can go Fckuk himself, he ought to be man enough to change himself if he's calling you fat.
2006-11-26 14:03:37 · answer #7 · answered by B.B Top 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't DO anything. You already did enough. Now just enjoy your space and let him enjoy his. If ya wana still be together you gonna have alot to work out..he sounds insensitive. Do you like hard bitten guys? Let us know how it turns out!
2006-11-26 14:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by ssunfish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, what u should do is talk with this guy and tell him how that made u feel. And make sure u tell him, that he needs to stop if he wants to be with u.
2006-11-26 14:03:53 · answer #9 · answered by monkeykiwi_me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You NEVER have the right to hit someone EVER. If he hit you, it would be abuse, no? He was wrong to belittle you, but you crossed a line.
NO sympathy here!
2006-11-26 14:06:03 · answer #10 · answered by firefly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋