I have noticed on many threads you calling girls murders etc when answering their questions.note these girls are probably very young and frightend with nobody to talk to you are entitled to have your opinion but accept girls don't wish to get themselves into this heart wrenching prediciment and its too late to start preaching about contraception.if you are religious or spiritual ask yourself this an unwanted child could spend its first years abused and neglected surely its better for their soul to be passed to another baby that goes to another family who is ready and loving.try being sympathetic its a horrible decision to have to make and stays with you forever.try giving answers that will help not terrify these young girls.
2006-11-26 05:42:46 · 32 answers · asked by louonline78 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Thats Brilliant. You are completely right about these religious fanatics that have some 'justified' reason for branding anyone who is brave enough to try and rectifiy a mistake.
At the end of the day, its their body. I don't have a problem with religion or pro-life- I do have a problem with people using it as an excuse to tarnish a person for their values or decisions- simply because they are different.
To all of the Pro- Lifers . . . As perfect as you all are I'm sure you've made some mistakes along the way- sexual or otherwise. The anguish, and heartache that comes along with such situations is enough punishment. As adults, we will find these things hard to deal with- so imagine how much harder it is for these young girls.
They made mistakes, they don't need to be made to feel sub-human because of it!
2006-11-26 08:29:23 · answer #1 · answered by sassedangel 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Your right now a days a lot of young girls don't have mom, auntie or a sister to talk with, but sex education is taught in high school. You can gain sex ed lessons through television for crying out loud. By the time these young woman have hit puberty they are aware there are contraceptives out there, and they aren't 100% guaranteed. I don't think that 11-15 year old girls are always responsible enough to care for a child, but there are other options out there. And as long as these children have access to a public library they have acces to all the information they need. I am sympathetic to the a young girl who bares the load of adult hood way to soon, but its a choice they made not the baby inside of them. When I answer questions about abortion I'm honest in my opinion and if they don't want honesty they shouldn't be asking. Instead of codling these young girls who don't know any better,maybe what they need is a refreshing dose of honesty not sympathy. Someone who says yup it's gonna be hard, but taking the easy road isn't always the right road. At some point these girls need to learn life's hard lessons, or in twenty years where are they gonna be? Protected and coddled unable to handle life because someone else has had sympathy for them all there life, but never enough guts to tell them the hard facts.
2006-11-26 06:06:49 · answer #2 · answered by novelwyrm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU say:
"an unwanted child could spend its first years abused and neglected surely its better for their soul to be passed to another baby that goes to another family who is ready and loving.try being sympathetic its a horrible decision to have to make and stays with you forever.try giving answers that will help not terrify these young girls."
I say:
Then why haven't you adopted a child if you care so much?
2006-11-26 08:29:28 · answer #3 · answered by yo mama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend was raped and nevertheless she kept the child, understanding that it is very , very cruel and wrong to kill the unborn, since it will give the baby a lot suffering and the mother and father will also have to pay on the same way, be forced to be aborted. She is Hindu, she knows about karma but what you said is right, the girls in this situation is in need of sympathy , affection and support, not judgemental and cold remarks or ideas.
2006-11-26 06:04:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are totally right, I haven't used the sight very long but I can't believe the number of rude and spiteful people who type a useless answer to some of the questions asked. I try to share my knowledge and hope that it helps others. So many people are alone in the world they don't need to be put down and saddened by mindless morons.
2006-11-26 05:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by SARAH S 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well put! It's a hard decision-and I can only imagine the fear and heartache these girls are going through. But they are making the decision that is right for them-and bless them,it's not an easy decision. Have some empathy. Get off your condescending high horses and consider the feelings of the person asking for help.
2006-11-26 05:55:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
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2016-10-13 03:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, there is no question here and second of all, people voicing their opinions is their right and obviously you have your views on it as well. You are free to voice yours as well, but posting your statement on here is the same thing as them posting their statement on anti-abortion when another young child makes a mistake. I think so many people get angry because abortion is not contraception and many teens use it as such just because they were irresponsible.
2006-11-26 05:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by ShanaJ 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I agree with what you are saying. I wouldn't condemn people who did. The best decision has to be made and It is one of the most difficult decision to be made. I know people have regrets whichever path they take. I do have to say my little boy is my breath of fresh air :0)
2006-11-26 05:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by itgirl23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know i completely agree with you. there are many reasons for women and girls to have abortions and they shouldn't be judged for that. are those people going to judge me because i had an abortion. i had to have one as i had cancer and carrying on with the pregnancy would have killed me.
sorry but anti abortionists really get to me. i was spat at on my way out of the clinic and none of them have a clue.
2006-11-26 08:45:55 · answer #10 · answered by chrissy m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋