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Question

What do guys look into girls? I know you guys will say sweetness and looks and stuff, but why? When you have a crush on a girl, why do you have a crush on her anyway. I notive that in my school, some guys just like girls because of their looks.And you know what I think, guys like popular girls and mean girls.Is that true? If not, what do you look into girls? Please be honest with me!Thanks!

Answer 1

Well if you like a guy flurt with him but make sure you have expectations about the guy you want. don't worrie about him so much worrie about what you want!
How you get a guy to like you!
1. Laugh at his jokes, but don't go mental over the lame ones
2. Smile a LOT
3. Talk to him a lot, and get really funny/interesting/good conversations going, ya know, get to know him
4. Be REALLY nice
5. Stick up 4 him when he is insulted (For instance - "At least HE'S not a loser")
6. When you talk to him, use his name more than once so he know's that you know his name, (boys like to hear that)
7. Do not put on makeup/lipgloss/fix your hair in front of him. Always do this BEFORE seeing him. :-) (and don't overdo it)
8. Be yourself!
9. Bring him a little something on his birthday - not like a HUGE gift, may B like a little card/note or something (let him know u care)
10. Talk about things u guys are interested in - maybe you have some similar interests that u can talk about! 11. Never hesitate to let him use your pens/paper/other junk he needs to borrow! And let him use the BEST pen you have. :-)
12. When other people accuse u of liking him, IN FRONT OF HIM, say that he is very nice (LOOKING j/k), and what is worng with that?
13. Say hi to him in the hallways
14. Tell him your e-mail address and get his!
14. When you talk, do not avoid his eyes. Look straight into those pretty blues!
15. Make some jokes! (Not lame ones)
16. Avoid bragging (this goes w/ out saying)
17. If you ever write a note to him, write "Your friend" or if it is a little more intimate, write a heart or "luv" before your closing. Make the letter *colorful*
18. When you talk, don't do all the talking - let him say stuff too, and vice versa
19. Be yourself!!! (yet again!)
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OK this would be my IDEAL BOYFRIED.........ALL GUYS SHOULD READ!
Ladies: this will make you tear up :)
fellas: read it, all of it! :)
1-touch their waist
2-talk to her
3-share secrets
4-give her your jacket
5-kiss them slowly
are you remembering this?
6-hug her
7-hold her
8-laugh with her
9-invite her somewhere
10-let her be with you when you're with your friends
keep reading
11-smile with her
12-take pictures with her
13-pull her onto your lap
14-when she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back
15-when her friends say I love her more than you deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can’t get to her friends. It makes her feel loved
are you thinking about someone?
16-always hug her and say I love you when you see her
17-kiss her unexpectedly
18-HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THE WAIST
19-tell her she’s beautiful not sexy!
20-tell her the way you feel about her!
20 u need to show her you mean it too
21-kiss her on the lips
22-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. You buy HER stuff
23-tell her what feels good
24-make her feel loved
25-buy her stuff. small things can still help
we might deny it but we actually like and kind of want you to get us things
26-don't lie to her
27-dont cheat on her
28-take her anywhere she wants
29-txt message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her
30-be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can always count on you
are you still reading this u better be its important
31. Hold her close when she's cold and she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss them).
34. While in the movie, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. Dont ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If she’s upset, comfort her
remember this next time you are with her
36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her hold her in your arms as long as possible
MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHE’S LOVED
41. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night.
44. Always Remind her how much you love her.
you’ll never know when she needs just a little more love
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Some expectations of a good boyfriend
12) Someone who holds your hand whenever possible.
11) Puts his arms around your waist and whispers in your ear.
10) Kisses you every chance he gets.
9) Holds you close when your cold.
8) When you are alone-holds you close and KISSES you.
7) Kisses you on the tip of your nose (it will give you the hint that he wants to kiss you.)
6) While in the movies, puts his arm around you and then you'll automatically put your head on his shoulder then he'll lean in and tilt your chin and kiss you lightly.
5) When you complain that your neck hurts he'll massage it for you.
4) When people diss you he stands up for you.
3) Looks deep into your eyes and TELLS you he loves you or that you are adorable.
2) Lays down under the stars with you and puts your head on his chest so you can listen to the steady beat of his heart and link your fingers together while he whispers to you as you rest your eyes and listen to his voice.
1) Open all doors for you (it makes you feel so special!!!)
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If you think the one you love is worried about you two having a relationship then do the following:
1. Relax. Dont think so much.
2. With the parents, speak only when you know exactly what you’re going to say and you know they will reply well to what you have said.
3. With the ex. If you think she’s still into him ask her. Dont be accusing though that could be bad. Say something like: if you say you like only me ill believe you I just want to hear it from you.
4. Good luck and dont forget to chill.

Here's a list out of my little black book. I hope it helps and Good Luck in your journey! ~Alison~

Answer 2

It's all about chemistry and mathematics, yes, looks makes a boy look at the girl at first,(that's the mathematics)it's been found that mathematical points with in the face is what makes a person pretty or handsome but as he starts to have a crush on her it goes farther and that's where chemistry come into the picture. her smile, laugh, the way she talks or sounds the way she moves. These is the chemistry that cause's the sparks that starts the crush and more so, his intrigue for you, being drawn into wanting to know more. That's where "popular" comes in...the popular girl your talking about is the girl that make's guy's notice her by being outspoken or exposed to be noticed thus being "popular" The shy girl gets noticed also but this is different and not as fast. she gets stumbled upon like, in class when a teacher asks her a question or in the lunch room and the guy that has a crush on her waits for her to enter the room every day because he sees the chemistry ( he likes her) but her and probably him as well being shy makes it hard for contact but once that contact is broken, there's no stopping it.This I know because you have no idea how shy I am from the start.If you talked to my family, friends and friends of family, hell, even reading this answer the people in my life would argue with you, even think your on drugs to think I was shy because of my past and the amount of women I've had in my life. Approching someone isn't my best skill but body language is and I've had more dates than I can count because of it. It's like setting the mood from 15 feet away and the hard part is over when "they approch me". Does this work? because of the numbers involved, no one would believe me when I say, that's all I used. I really suck at approching someone that I'm attracted to but once it starts, I loosen up pretty quick and so on. Looks start it and chemistry keeps it going. Yep! here's something to remember and this will most likely cause a fuss on these answers but I'm going to say it anyway just for you because you want to know. Boys ARE different than men. boys only got one thing running through head(small one) and they're egos make them think they know it all and they think they are the coc of the walk.. most but not all Men are more times than not, the same but they're egos won't let them admit it. All the guys will talk about the "popular" girl all day long and wants to be able to GET with that girl and brag but "no"man, young or old wants the popular girl that everyone 's had or talks about for a relationship or to take home to mom. he wants to have someone that no one else has had or at least not the talk of the town. A lot of men don't know and some don't care that a man can be a perfect gentelman even on a one night stand and show respect for that woman and chances are that his reputation is being spread all over his favorite watering hole so he may think he's one of those macho idiots but what's really happening is he tossing his next date right out the window. Advise*** Always be your self, don't worrie about being the most popular and never give up your class and self respect. anyone that's someone that you want to be with, won't ask you to give those up. When you do find someone you like, be honest and truthfull, expect the same, and that a long with your class and self respect, "Is What Guy's Like!!" hope this helps. :)

Answer 3

I don't think is true, well to me, I think boys like personilaty and beauty at the same time. Well, maybe some guys like popular girls, but some don't.

Answer 4

Im not a man but it is the same with women . what i look for in a man is the honisty , love , and respect if they dont have that sorry but leave them alone .