She is a lost child that is rebelious. Her grandparents left her and her sister a house. She wantsd to live with her boyfriend thier, not work, and doesn't care if her works. During that time her sister works and goes to school and pays her share of the bills. He is disrepectful curses every one that doesn't agree with him, and refuses to let my daughter waitress so she can help her sister pay bills and go back to school. I think is a LOSER! and a control freak! HELP!!!!!!
2006-11-26 05:41:30 · 7 answers · asked by HeartAngel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The fact that he is 28 and she is 18 is not important..
The important fact is that he is a loser and control freak...
I have no idea as to how you can get your daughter to use
her own common sense and see reality...
Just keep giving her your advice , that is all you can do..
2006-11-26 05:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is definitely wrong. The age difference is too big, and your daughter is too young to be dating someone so much older than she. Try having a calm phone call with the man and asking why your daughter can't waitress. Ask if he's been going through any hard times because he seems stressed out and you want to help. Although that's not necessarily true, it might help you get through to him and change his behavior. It's worth a shot, good luck!
2006-11-26 13:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by Mental Patient 29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i agree with you and if he cared about her he would not get in the way and stop her from doing what is right for her to better her life she needs to tell him to get lost. If he was an kind of man he would not be with a young girl like herself that man must be a LOSER
2006-11-26 19:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by Fantasia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you have it right he is a loser and a control freak . He needs to let your daughter do something so that she can at least pay for her needs . oh and when he started cursing everyone walk away you dont have to listen . good luck and god bless and happy holidays.
2006-11-26 13:46:20 · answer #4 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although he does sound like a looser, it's your daughter's choice, not yours, as to who she dates, and chooses to live with. Be wise, and say nothing at this point. Eventually, she may get smart and get rid of him. All you can do is let her know that you love her no matter what she does. Good luck!
2006-11-26 13:55:41 · answer #5 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and your daughter and the asshole needs to sit down and have a serouse talk to see what your daughter thinks about this ****
2006-11-26 13:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing let them live their life .if its a mistake they Will learn from it .if its not then they'll be happy and the mom should be to
2006-11-26 13:46:55 · answer #7 · answered by CaLiFoRnIa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋