GUYS COULD YOU ANSWER THIS ONE please?

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GUYS COULD YOU ANSWER THIS ONE please?
do you get nervous around women you like...i texted this guy i use to date we dated fora bit he was really into me although at first he said he thought i was a little scary..and was frightened to approach me..basically i was having a difficult time at work and it was right guy wrong time i could not give him the attention i should off also i was so upset about work and i was bottling it up well i just acted really wierd..Anyway its been 7 monts and i texted him to say sorry for my erratic behaviour and jokingly said 'do u still think i should be locked up?' He replied and he said "Dont worry about it. It doesnt matter. Glad u and u friends can laugh at it. Take care" what does this mean should i text him and ask him for a drink ...i really like him...if u were in his shoes what would u think if this girl asked you out..he approached me initially on new years eve and his friend said he had been starirring for about 40 mins before he came up to me...what does that say about him??HELP

Answer 1

If you like this guy then ask him out. So you didn't give the best first impression, big deal. Just ask him out, relax, be yourself and see where it goes from there.

Answer 2

i know i'm a girl but here is a list out of my little black book I think if you flurt with him and show him you like him you still have a chance!
How you get a guy to like you!
1. Laugh at his jokes, but don't go mental over the lame ones
2. Smile a LOT
3. Talk to him a lot, and get really funny/interesting/good conversations going, ya know, get to know him
4. Be REALLY nice
5. Stick up 4 him when he is insulted (For instance - "At least HE'S not a loser")
6. When you talk to him, use his name more than once so he know's that you know his name, (boys like to hear that)
7. Do not put on makeup/lipgloss/fix your hair in front of him. Always do this BEFORE seeing him. :-) (and don't overdo it)
8. Be yourself!
9. Bring him a little something on his birthday - not like a HUGE gift, may B like a little card/note or something (let him know u care)
10. Talk about things u guys are interested in - maybe you have some similar interests that u can talk about! 11. Never hesitate to let him use your pens/paper/other junk he needs to borrow! And let him use the BEST pen you have. :-)
12. When other people accuse u of liking him, IN FRONT OF HIM, say that he is very nice (LOOKING j/k), and what is worng with that?
13. Say hi to him in the hallways
14. Tell him your e-mail address and get his!
14. When you talk, do not avoid his eyes. Look straight into those pretty blues!
15. Make some jokes! (Not lame ones)
16. Avoid bragging (this goes w/ out saying)
17. If you ever write a note to him, write "Your friend" or if it is a little more intimate, write a heart or "luv" before your closing. Make the letter *colorful*
18. When you talk, don't do all the talking - let him say stuff too, and vice versa
19. Be yourself!!! (yet again!)
Here's a list out of my little black book. I hope it helps and Good Luck in your journey! ~Alison~

Answer 3

i'm in a similar situation, i liked this one girl last year. it seemed we were hitting it off pretty well, then all of a sudden she started acting all wierd, and i stopped persuing her...

several months later, we ran into each other, hit it off again somhow, and actually started talking more than before (yeah, i'm starting to like her all over again)...

i know he thought you were smokin hot when he first met you. did you say/do something to piss him off? he sounds a little skeptical about you, judging from his text message.

let him know that you want to make it up to him by going out sometime. at least this will show you were sorry for whatever happened.

Timing always seems to be a big hurdle when it comes to the opposite sex. but it is possible for things between you two to start up again. just make sure you two are able to give each other the neccessary attention if it does this time around...

good luck^^

Answer 4

Ask him out on a mini date. Like having a drink after work. This way it gives both of you an out if it isn't going to well.

Answer 5

If he thought at one time you should be locked up, maybe there is more to the story than you are telling. but if a girl turned me down, and then wanted to meet up again 7 months later, I would think it was cool and probably say yes. Again, unless there is something more to the story that would indicate he never wants to see you again. But if you just rejected him and now want to see him again, making the first move is very acceptable.

Answer 6

Personally, I'll be freaked out seeing a hot girl acting weird, but if I like her, it only makes her hotter.

Answer 7

if he is scared of you he real does like you, and will try hard to make you happy,in a good way
just date a few times and you will see

Answer 8

He likes u

Answer 9

Re-read what he texted. It sounds like it's too late.

Answer 10

yes i get a bad felling but it goes aways after you get close to them