Three of my best friends just commited suicide in the past 3 months!!
and i cant stop thinking about them.....and i miss them sooooo much!!!!
How can i start to get over it
?????? please help
2006-11-26 05:40:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah you might want to see someone, so YOU don't commit suicide. Well, make some new friends, maybe get a boyfriend. Get busy, so you're mind is on something else. Once in a while, you might want to look at pictures of them, so you can remember the fun you've had together. Participate in everything you can. It'll help to get you're mind off of them. And I'm very sorry for you.
2006-11-26 05:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by jamie 3 · 11⤊ 6⤋
oh my gosh well first im so sorry that happened. i don't think you ever will get completely over them though. They were your best friends its not like you can erase all the memories you had with them. All you really can do is hope there in a better place now and feel good that they are happy now and just know they probably want you to be happy and just think of all the good times you had with them and will have later on.
2006-11-26 13:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by lildancer 1 · 6⤊ 3⤋
First of all, I am so sorry. I send you my deepest sympathy. They were your best friends. Just try to remember all of the great and good times that you guys had together! Best Friends always have fun so you need to remember the good about them! You are in my prayers! God Bless!
2006-11-26 13:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by bananayell 1 · 7⤊ 2⤋
there will be no way to get over them but as you go in life do things that you would do for them, for example if one of your friends liked horses try riding horses, you can adapt this to any intrest, but you will always miss them, but just live their lives for them
2006-11-26 13:43:29 · answer #4 · answered by makemesomefuncookies 2 · 8⤊ 1⤋
omg i am so sry talk to some 1 u can trust or maybe go se a counsler or sycologist b 4 any thing else bad happens. i so sry. may god be with u.
2006-11-26 13:43:06 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Cutie♥ 2 · 7⤊ 3⤋
make a scrapbook about each of them as a sign of closure. when you start thinking abt them, open the book and reminescence w/ a smile. just give it a little more time. eventually you will move on.
2006-11-26 13:43:50 · answer #6 · answered by claria 6 · 15⤊ 2⤋
I'm actually debating suicide so I'm sorry I can't help you much. I do realize that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I'm sorry that you have to go through this as well. Please, don't think about doing it yourself. It's hard on me to think of what I'll leave behind!~Alison~
2006-11-26 14:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by luvracin_ia2 2 · 8⤊ 5⤋
best thing for you to be speaking with a counselor at school or your local priest , if you have not already talked this over with your parents or best friends
2006-11-26 13:42:55 · answer #8 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 7⤊ 4⤋
Wow! If my best friends killed themselve i would be a diaster. Have you tried therapy? maybe talked to your friends families. Take a walk in their shoes. When you find th eproblem make a memo to never do that and talk to your other friends not make sure not to the same mistake.
2006-11-26 13:50:00 · answer #9 · answered by BIG RED 1 · 4⤊ 7⤋
You have to get rid of this.............. How ?
Thindk about the positive side of live !
think about the beautiful things in life, your abolities, your good fortunes, and so on
You haven't mentioned what makes you think so
Dont commit any blunder............................ Still there is enough life to live
2006-11-26 13:45:09 · answer #10 · answered by Meghadooth 2 · 7⤊ 5⤋