I was dating a married man, and i did everything for him! He told me he cared about me, but then he just stopped calling! I am a nice person that just wants to be loved and needed. What can i do to find true happiness?
2006-11-26 05:38:51 · 12 answers · asked by Little Miss Sunshine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't date any more married men..have a little bit more respect for yourself that you deserve something other than 'hand me downs' and sloppy seconds
2006-11-26 05:40:53 · answer #1 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from married men. They are only out for the THRILL. Don't look so hard. But stay away from married men they only out for sex and that's not love and you will never find true happiness in that situation. And most of all be happy with yourself alone then bring someone else in. But not a married man.
2006-11-26 13:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by dnisey64 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One day when you are not looking, and giving yourself a break form men.....love, and true happiness will find you.....thats always the way....when you look too hard it does not come....but word of warning stay away from married men they only spell trouble, and never really leave their wives, you deserve better than that....learn to love yourself now...and everything will fall into place afterwards.
2006-11-26 13:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a single guy first off! Despite what most woman think...married men aren't leaving their wives! And even if he is the most wrong, you weren't being nice being with him. You knew he has a wife. Imagine that you're married and your husband is cheating with a girl like you?
2006-11-26 13:42:36 · answer #4 · answered by mich 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop dating married men.
2006-11-26 13:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by questioningly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sure you are a very nice person....don't look where men just lust after you know what when they have another life....let love find you and only accept the best for you miss sunshine ;-)
2006-11-26 19:01:18 · answer #6 · answered by Batman has left the building 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to find happiness you need to find the right guy. alot of times you you give someone everything and do everything for them you will end up getting used in the end.
2006-11-26 13:42:00 · answer #7 · answered by jungle cheeks 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He stopped calling because his wife suffers from SchizoChick Dymentia and killed him. Just let any guy hit it and you'll be loved.
2006-11-27 13:16:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no such thing as true happiness so i wouldnt know how to find it maybe try some scatter brained religion
2006-11-28 11:27:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your best bet is to make sure you have an idea of the right guy, so you can find happniess and let love come to you don't search for it. I once dated a married guy I gave him wat he wanted which happened to be sex then he did the same to me so i have now reverted to not seeing married men.
OK this would be my IDEAL BOYFRIED.........ALL GUYS SHOULD READ!
Ladies: this will make you tear up :)
fellas: read it, all of it! :)
1-touch their waist
2-talk to her
3-share secrets
4-give her your jacket
5-kiss them slowly
are you remembering this?
6-hug her
7-hold her
8-laugh with her
9-invite her somewhere
10-let her be with you when you're with your friends
keep reading
11-smile with her
12-take pictures with her
13-pull her onto your lap
14-when she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back
15-when her friends say I love her more than you deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can’t get to her friends. It makes her feel loved
are you thinking about someone?
16-always hug her and say I love you when you see her
17-kiss her unexpectedly
18-HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THE WAIST
19-tell her she’s beautiful not sexy!
20-tell her the way you feel about her!
20 u need to show her you mean it too
21-kiss her on the lips
22-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. You buy HER stuff
23-tell her what feels good
24-make her feel loved
25-buy her stuff. small things can still help
we might deny it but we actually like and kind of want you to get us things
26-don't lie to her
27-dont cheat on her
28-take her anywhere she wants
29-txt message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her
30-be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can always count on you
are you still reading this u better be its important
31. Hold her close when she's cold and she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss them).
34. While in the movie, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. Dont ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If she’s upset, comfort her
remember this next time you are with her
36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her hold her in your arms as long as possible
MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHE’S LOVED
41. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night.
44. Always Remind her how much you love her.
you’ll never know when she needs just a little more love
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Some expectations of a good boyfriend
12) Someone who holds your hand whenever possible.
11) Puts his arms around your waist and whispers in your ear.
10) Kisses you every chance he gets.
9) Holds you close when your cold.
8) When you are alone-holds you close and KISSES you.
7) Kisses you on the tip of your nose (it will give you the hint that he wants to kiss you.)
6) While in the movies, puts his arm around you and then you'll automatically put your head on his shoulder then he'll lean in and tilt your chin and kiss you lightly.
5) When you complain that your neck hurts he'll massage it for you.
4) When people diss you he stands up for you.
3) Looks deep into your eyes and TELLS you he loves you or that you are adorable.
2) Lays down under the stars with you and puts your head on his chest so you can listen to the steady beat of his heart and link your fingers together while he whispers to you as you rest your eyes and listen to his voice.
1) Open all doors for you (it makes you feel so special!!!)
2006-11-26 14:59:32 · answer #10 · answered by luvracin_ia2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋