Sometimes i feel really low because my girl betrayed me..wat do i do to motivate myself? i have never been so true and open to anyone in my life..and now i have to go through this..don feel like living at all..but i don wanna die as well cus i wanna live for my parents..but how do i motivate myself..d worse thin is dat my ex hangs out wit another guy of my college..so whenever i go to colege and i get to see her car wit him sittin in my seat my head just blows..i start crying because i feel very depressed..because of this im even scared to go to college bcus i neva know when i get to c her car again..why is God doin this to me?? Is this wat is fair for God?? Was me being caring and being true a crime..hate myself more than anybody else..dat girl is enjoin her life wit anyone she wants to and doesn even bother about me..she doesn even bother losing me after two years of a relationship which was divine..she changed so fast and she dumped me..Why is this happenin?? i cant hate her also
2006-11-26 05:38:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
learn from your mistakes. Eat ice cream =]
2006-11-26 05:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by Shortii. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things change all the time, maybe it wasn't right for her anymore...
my ex dumped me and didn't even tell me why - I was depressed and short of suicide, but finally I've found back to myself and asked what I want in life...
well I go my answer, thanks god...
after my opinion love is just an invention to satisfy the masurchistic needs of the humankind....
but for the moment, try to become a better student, or get a new girlfriend or whatever
the only important thing is that you start to feel like she hasn't deserved you!
2006-11-26 13:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by doctor who 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to love hurts!!
this happens to everybody and i promise you that in time you will get over it. But sulking around her is not going to help you. find something new to do or make some new friends to get your mind off it.
You had bettter start enjoying your life also.
Its too short to spend whining for one person who obviuosly doesnt care.
Besides Im sure that if you take good advice bythis time next year or even sooner depending on you, you would have forgotten she existed.
2006-11-26 13:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by Jirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to college? My advice is for you to grow up. Get over what could have been and live your freaking life, it is not her job to make you happy and she is not the one making you miserable, YOU are. Stop blaming her for something you are doing to yourself.
2006-11-26 13:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
god didn't do this to you...god gave man free will a long time ago and god doesn't pick on us individually...you're heart broke and that happens to everyone sooner or later..time will help mend your heart
2006-11-26 13:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋