I have a crush on a male/guy friend or coworker at work. At first, I thought he was interested in me since he would tease me and flirt with me a lot. He would even send me emails that contained romantic songs and kept asking if I had a bf. Then I told him, that I liked him and he told me he has a gf. I tell myself that he is unavailable and that we can still be friends. Sometimes I email him at work, but then he told me that I should stop emailing him since he was getting the impression that I was sending him a lot of emails because I like him. I know he isn't the one for me since he's in luv with someone else and we are too different anyway. But then sometimes I cry in the middle of the night about him. He still teases me throughout the work day, by making funny faces, but I kinda prefer he stop. What should I do about my feelings for him? Remember, I see him at work everyday, and our desks are situated close to each other, so we are bound to run into each other.
2006-11-26 05:31:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are uncomfortable with him teasing you then tell him to stop. it's not easy to stop having feelings for someone, but try to find yourself a boyfriend.
2006-11-26 05:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 14:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should tell him to stop teasing u because u don't like it. It is the best way to go... If he is telling you to stop sending him e-mails then u should be able to tell him to stop teasing u!
Do it! It'll help.
2006-11-26 05:34:32 · answer #3 · answered by GuruV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. HE shouldn't be playing those types of games if he has a girl. What he is doing can be considered sexual harrassment in the work place. Just let it and him go. If he has a girl I feel sorry for her.
2006-11-26 05:35:32 · answer #4 · answered by dnisey64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you would be unreasonable to ask him to stop teasing you if it makes you uncomfortable. He did ask you to stop emailing him. You're entitled to your feelings...ignore him when he makes funny faces...he'll get the picture.
2006-11-26 06:30:22 · answer #5 · answered by AlwayzaLady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH! He, just didn,t want his girl-friend, to see the e-mails you were sending him........He was interested in you allright.....but only for sex,.......Don,t cry over that dude........Tell him to back off, before a little bird, tell,s his girlfriend, what he does at work all day.
2006-11-26 05:40:26 · answer #6 · answered by ThomasL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM WHATS WHAT HOW DO U EXPECT HIM TO CHANGE OTHERWISE
2006-11-26 05:33:06 · answer #7 · answered by jaydyne f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-11-26 05:33:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋